david_v Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 After dating for about 4 months the girl goes away for 3 weeks for the holidays and comes back and gives me this line and tells me we can't continue to see eachother anymore. It came right out of the blue as we were great, never argued, lots of things in common, lots of sex, she was very affectionate towards me, always kissing me, presented me to her friends etc asked me if i thought it was wierd that we developed a connection so fast (this was early, like third date or something) so all the signs were there but still it ended abrubtly like this. She came to my place and broke it off. I took it like man, was calm and collected. I said it was unfortunate because I really like her. She said we could grab a beer or something sometime, this I interpreted as the friend card, so I told her that's not gonna happen but in a kind of friendly tone. She broke down crying.. alot. She kissed me numerous times during the evening. That's how it went, we'd talk abit, she'd kiss me and cry. She broke up about a month ago and I've been doing the No Contact since then. Now I'm not really looking for answer on how to get her back since the trust is gone I'm not sure i'd take her back but I'm looking for answers for what the hell happened? The breakup was almost the other way around in terms of emotional reaction. Anyone been in this situation like me and care to explain to me what was in her mind? Was her reason to breakup just an excuse? and what's with the crying and kissing if she doesn't have feelings for me? /dave
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