Cuchara2 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 If any of you remember me you know my story. Here's a quick recap anyway: Went out with my ex for 2 years, she left me, I did all the wrong things, chased, begged, got angry etc. None of which worked. Then, I went NC, removed her from Facebook (really pissed her off). She would always complain I wasn't talking to her, then when I told her I wasn't going to she'd try and make me jealous. She's had a "relationship" with someone else, I guess you could call it a rebound. I've had quite a few women in my life since then, most were one nighters (repeated some of them), then there was this one girl who I really thought we could have something good with but it turns out she's the most immature person I know. Now yesterday, we were out with a group of friends and we went to a restaurant. I've started talking to her again and you could say we're friends (kind of - still awkward on my side at least). So we were at this restaurant and she sits opposite me.. I was ok with that. Then, under the table, she starts rubbing my leg. I said who's rubbing my leg, she apologises, then does it again 5 minutes later. This might have happened 4 - 5 times in 2 hours. Finally, she puts her legs up on this sofa thingy I was sitting on right next to me. Then, she put her foot on my leg... Weiirrdd, but then put it on my crotch trying to "show a friend something". So I was weirded out by that and she made it pretty obvious she was flirting with me. I was being cheeky and teasing her about just about everything, but I see how it could be seen like I was flirting back. Her female friends were also dropping these suggestive comments and looks (this only started after they all went to the bathroom together - of course they would never talk in there would they?). Before the night ended, we were in this park smoking some things and just like that, somehow we're left all alone, where she starts talking about my knob and how she'd seen it, how she could imagine me masturbating (wtf?) and how guys are all jackasses because they only like them for her looks or because they're horny bastards and they don't care at all about feelings or emotions. This is significant because she always commented on how she loved how I truly cared about her feelings and emotions when we were dating. Really, really odd. Now this all could just be my imagination, but I'd say she was trying to get back with me? It wasn't just the actions, it was the way she was talking to me. It was the same way she used to talk to me when we were going out. I personally do not know what I want. If she made a proper sincere apology and I believed her, I believe I may take her back, but then again, I've heard things never work out and it's not worth the hassle. Ideas, thoughts and help please?
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