jgreen86 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 i had been talking to this guy for a little over a month. we had many things in common and so just got along so great, until he went out of town for holiday and disappeared. I was confused coz everything went great.. I decided not to look for him, but then, a month after he disappeared he text me and ask how i've been doing and work stuff. He told me that he was very busy and has a lot of things in his mind atm and also said that we should catch up soon. So what does it mean? i'm confused with his actions.
Hules Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Sounds like hes found someone else and is stringing you along as a backup plan. If he was really interested he would be setting up dates with you not saying "sometime soon" might as well be never. Him been really busy is just an excuse. Seriously if a guy is into you he will make time to see you even if hes working 40+ hours a week.
daphne Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 I think it's pretty clear cut. He doesn't know what he wants. He thought about it and decided to give you another try. He's not crazy about you, but wants to see where it might go. A guy who was truly that busy and crazy about you would be upfront so as to notlet his chance slip by. He's not going to disappear for a month. It's up to you as to whether you like being "another try."
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