kattiiee95 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 okay long stong this is a short version of it anywho i think i like my one of my best friend. we have been friends since *orention day about 5 years ago at school. weve always been hugging kissing biting feeling each other up hitting each other motor boating flirty all **** like that its just the way we are always have been since day one. about a month ago i slept over her house and we were on online talking to randoms cause we were boredd and she was ontop of me and we were playing around with eachothers legs her and yeahh we talked to some random and he dared us to kiss and soo we did that i didnt want to stop but i got scared and stopped and we laughed about it afterwards cause we have never full on made out before wed only pecked thats about it and i also pinned her down while we were half asleep and i was ganna kiss her but she smiled and i dunno i just couldnt do it. i think she knows i kindda like her im not sure. i dont wanna ruin our friendship but i think i do like her. were both 16 im bi and she doesnt know wat she is im soo scared to try this is like a world first for me cause i have been with alot of guys and a few girls but ive never liked someone like i like her. soo i was wondering wat yous think i should do about this who thing please.*
Mrlonelyone Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 If you value the friendship then do nothing. There is a chance that when having to confront her sexual orientation your friend will freak out.
Scottdmw Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 It sounds like you like her and guys also, so you have a choice. Here are some things to think about. It is possible that if you get involved romantically with a girl it might be more difficult later to be with a guy. Also, if later on you fall in love with a guy and tell him that you were with a girl, he may find it hard to deal with. Other guys may feel differently, and some may just say they feel differently, but when I am dating a woman and find out she has a “history” of being with women, it makes me wonder if she will want to go back to that later. It's something that makes me think twice about staying with a woman in a relationship. Scott
Mrlonelyone Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 I have to disagree with Scott. I am a bisexual man. Every woman I have been in a relationship knows this and when it comes down to it has been ok with it. A man of any quality and worth your time will not be bothered by your history. They will just take you as you come.
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