justletgox51 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 I'm only 15 years old and my ex and I dated for 11 months with many "mini break-ups" throughout those 11 months we shared. Though we had our official break up 2 months ago. And I did the same thing as many of you guys have done and those would be, chased after him, pleaded to get back together, did the lovey dovey: wrote letters, but I just pushed him away. We both go to the same school and he's a year older than me plus an extrovert. I already heard he likes some other girl from my grade because after 3 weeks of when we broke up, I started to "move on" and like other guys below my grade (I'm in grade 10 and my ex is in grade 11). And I guess my ex liking someone from my grade is his way of moving on and slowly getting over it. I may not be as old as some experts here but I have made at least 3 or more threads about my ex. It's hard because I see him everyday at school, and thank God I go to a self-directed school because if he's in the same department as me-- I can just go somewhere else or find another seat that's further away from him. Anyway, for those who are heartbroken right now.... Just one tip: If you don't know what to do, it might be best to do nothing. And if you don't know what to say, say nothing. I've been reading threads about how their ex-boyfriend/girlfriend's birthday is coming up and they're asking people on whether to greet their ex. And my ex-boyfriend's birthday is coming up in about a week and some days, and I'm 98 % certain that I will not greet him and still continue with NC. It's because people who come to this section of this site are uncertain on things. I just want to say that, if you don't know what to do or what to say to your ex, just say nothing and do nothing about it. I know it's going to be hard but trust me. I'm younger, my hormones are always in the way, and I cry at least once a week about him. (If you guys want to read what happened just read my other threads). Anyway, we all can do this!
Trovador Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Good advice for those horrible moments! I have always wondered why I do something that turns out desastrous (like calling my ex) when it is easier not doing anything at all and I have learnt that being inactive has helped me to appear less needy and clingy (like asking her why she didn't call me or did something)... I'll try to have your words in mind whenever I feel insecure about what to do in respect to my ex (since all I have done and said it's been useless). At the very least I won't be torn apart about what to do or not to do... thanks for your thoughts young lady and try not to worry too much... like you, I see my ex everyday at work...
cerridwen Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Nice. You maybe young OP but you're wise !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IfiKnewThen Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Nice. You maybe young OP but you're wise !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hehe my thoughts exactly
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