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Moving on from ONS


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I recently met a girl and ended up hooking up the same night.

 

We exchanged phone numbers and had a first date.

 

Normally I wouldn't have gone along with a date, but I did, because I've recently decided that my dating approach was too self-centered and that I should instead enjoy simply being with all sorts of different people, identifying their unique qualities, and that's all.

 

Except I've never tried this before (****ing before dating), and it's confusing. I don't feel "sparks," but I also know I'm usually slow to develop them in general. I know that she wants to stop being single, and I can't honestly say the same thing.

 

Typically I prefer to "see things to their end." My needs right now are broad and unintimidating. So normally, I would just continue with this and see how it goes. But I know she wants to continue having sex, and I'm concerned about it, considering how on the fence I am.

 

So what should I do? Continue and go with it? Or cut it off early?

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It is always difficult to move backwards in a relationship.

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