seaworld Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 i've posted here about my story, but basic jist, we were together for 4, engaged for like 10 months, and she broke up with me 3.5 months ago. We had problems, but nothing severe, i mean who doesn't. The breaking point was her talking to a friend that was getting married, they talked about past relationships with her, and why it didnt work out, and how she didn't see a future. It placed an idea into my ex fiance's mind, and it just grew like a virus, and she broke up with me 3 wks later, citing the same damn reasons why my friend broke up with her boyfriend, don't see a future, too different. I think I may need some professional help here. Im thinking about seeing a therapist. She is such a sweet girl, but everytime I see a picture of her now, I can't help but feel a little angry at her. I know it was just small talk, but it lead to something that changed the course of my life. Her wedding is coming up, and it will be the first time I will see my ex for a long time. I don't even know why my ex thinks so highly of her. I keep going through my mind, what if they never had that talk, what if, they never met. These "problems" we had would have blown over. Anybody have a similar story. I am trying not to hate her, but everytime I see her, emotions just boil inside of me, and I try soo hard to keep it in and be nice to her, but I feel she even feels that raw emotions I am starting to feel towards her, and I hate it.
bl22 Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 This is normal, if i was you...id resent her too. Dont feel guilty about that, you had your life set out with her, and im pretty sure she done a good job of convincing you that you will be together forever etc. Why is it 9/10 its always the GIRLS who back out of the relationship after listening to 'friends' It's like most girls these days just cant stay commited and always give up?!
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