Want my girl back, should i try to serenade her with a love song.

[arcticjunky]

Well if you guys read my other long thread you will know my situation. The basics are that she started to lose attraction to me and needed a break. She said how i'm no longer romantic towards her and treat her more as a friend. She admitted she has feelings for a co worker but wishes she didn't and has cried to me about it. I know she is beginning to think the grass is greener on the other side because of this guy, because I have experienced the same thing in this relationship, but got over it.

She claims she wants to transfer to another job and has said multiple times she really wants us to work out but needs to do her own thing right now. She still contacts me almost every day, its been about a week and a half since it started.

When I don't respond to her she will send another text or call.

A few days ago I recorded myself singing two love songs and posted them on youtube for her only to see. She knows i have something important to show her and is very curious to see what it is. She was supposed to come last night to see it but didnt, she then said she might come over tonight but she was supposed to be going to a work party. I told her never mind and just go to the party. I then turned the tables on her and said I agree we do need to just move on and i need to do my own thing. I want to get her back, and I would like to be strong and not contact her but I really want her to see these videos before I begin NC. Should I let her see them if she tries to?