fun2bewith Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 My 20 year old ex-girlfriend of 14 months kissed another guy and blocked me on FB by order of the new guy...We broke up peacefully and I told her we should not contact each other for 3 months, thinking that they would only last 3 months...(we both kept NC throughout christmas new year etc).. Soon after the break-up I was blocked on skype and yesterday after 3 months I logged into msn messenger and saw that she was online...but suddenly she was offline..I quess she hid her online status from me aswel... 101 days post break-up and she is still with the other guy. They are currently on holiday and she looks very happy... (I am kind of relieved, thought that she might turn out bad). I haven't called her yet, don't even know if her number is still working, but I just want to say hi. I mean it has been 3 months NC and no hard feelings, but fear that her nr might not work or that she might not pick up the phone, stops me... Questions 1) What could be the reasons for her not wanting to answer besides the obvious: in the shower, sleeping, etc? 2) When will be the best time to try and contact her; in a month's time when she is back from holiday?
poorguy Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Dude if she left you for someone else you don not contact her period!!! I mean that. In this situation you are going to have to let her contact you and when she does (and she will) you can't respond. When she does contact you it more than likely will only be for an ego boost because the new guy isn't as great as she thought he was. Now in the event she contacts you and says she sorry, she made a terrible mistake, she loves you, nd wants you back-Well then you have something to talk about
Author fun2bewith Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 (edited) Dude if she left you for someone else you don not contact her period!!! I mean that. In this situation you are going to have to let her contact you and when she does (and she will) you can't respond. When she does contact you it more than likely will only be for an ego boost because the new guy isn't as great as she thought he was. Now in the event she contacts you and says she sorry, she made a terrible mistake, she loves you, nd wants you back-Well then you have something to talk about You know you make sense! I kind of expected her to contact me already...but cool...I will continue to stay NC and enjoy life, it probably means she is still in the honeymoon phase with him... Thank you!! Edited February 4, 2011 by fun2bewith spelling
poorguy Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Good I'm glad you got it!!! So you know it is probably going to be a while before you hear anything. So remember unless it's anything other than she made a mistake, wants you back, etc. it's all BS
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