nwsingleguy Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I'm feeling really bummed out lately because I've realized that I'm great at one night stands and terrible at dating. I know this sounds ridiculous but it has been my pattern for quite a while. Anyone else on here ever go through something similar? If so how did you break this pattern? I really want to date someone exclusively but it seems like I suck at keeping intersest in women I like during dates. Yet I seem to have no problem striking up a conversation and going home or taking a girl home with me at a party or bar. It's really starting to have an impact on my self esteem.
Ay Diesel T Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I hear you, I went through a time where I didn't really feel great about myself at all. Women didn't want to date me, but they wanted to just have meaningless fun with me. It'll come to the point where you'll realize your worth, and stop giving yourself out to these Women who don't really value you. Just know what you're working with man, know that you're a great guy and capable of loving someone. More importantly, stop giving these sleazy women the time of the day. Make a woman work for it, and if she's worth it, she'll totally understand - cause she won't be the one lusting after you, but rather seeing where your mind is at.
LittleTiger Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 How do things go on your dates exactly? Can you tell us a bit more about what happens? One night stands are self-explanatory but there are lots of different kinds of dates and millions of different ways of behaving while you're on one, so a bit more information would be useful.
zengirl Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 I'm feeling really bummed out lately because I've realized that I'm great at one night stands and terrible at dating. I know this sounds ridiculous but it has been my pattern for quite a while. Anyone else on here ever go through something similar? If so how did you break this pattern? I really want to date someone exclusively but it seems like I suck at keeping intersest in women I like during dates. Yet I seem to have no problem striking up a conversation and going home or taking a girl home with me at a party or bar. It's really starting to have an impact on my self esteem. Are you only attracted to women who don't want relationships? Or do they just not want relationships with YOU? These would be 2 different issues. I'd need more info to discern what's happening here.
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