gsly Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Soo im kinda stuck in a situation, il start of by telling a short story: About two weeks ago i sent a message to a girl over facebook who i havent talked to in a while, well a few msgs were exchanged before she gave me her number and we set up a date to meet up. so we went to a movie decided it was a date and now i've got a second date, we're going to dinner then go for a walk after. now i plan on calling her sunday night just to make sure the date for monday night is still a go. Now, heres my question: does it make a girl feel uncomfortable if a guy txts her in between the first and second date?
snug.bunny Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Now, heres my question: does it make a girl feel uncomfortable if a guy txts her in between the first and second date? it depends on the guy who is doing the texting
Author gsly Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 What I don't get is why you are asking the ladies, they hardly know what works with them. About calling her in between dates, it depends on what you want to say to her, if it is just a reminder - I would say that looks pretty jenoir high" and it comes off as desperation which is not very good! if you want to keep women you must learn to show off some kind of tough personality...cut out those wussy attitude, I call it the "please take me" attitude all im just trying to make small talk with her,
Author gsly Posted February 4, 2011 Author Posted February 4, 2011 no im not saying anything about missing her or like that, pretty much just asking how her day at work is going or just questions about her in general
LittleTiger Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 does it make a girl feel uncomfortable if a guy txts her in between the first and second date? She's arranged to go on a second date with you which probably means she likes you..........and if she likes you she won't mind getting a friendly text from you.
zengirl Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 does it make a girl feel uncomfortable if a guy txts her in between the first and second date? Not if she likes the guy. Personally, I don't dig a major text-fest every day (some girls do, though), but a text in between would be a nice way for a guy to show he was thinking of me, I'd imagine. My BF texted me between our 1st and 2nd date, and I stuck around.
bac Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Soo im kinda stuck in a situation, il start of by telling a short story: About two weeks ago i sent a message to a girl over facebook who i havent talked to in a while, well a few msgs were exchanged before she gave me her number and we set up a date to meet up. so we went to a movie decided it was a date and now i've got a second date, we're going to dinner then go for a walk after. now i plan on calling her sunday night just to make sure the date for monday night is still a go. Now, heres my question: does it make a girl feel uncomfortable if a guy txts her in between the first and second date? IMO If it feels right to you, you should do that. Then, you should pay attention to her response/reaction. If she is cold and short, she does not like that. If she is warm, open and happy, she likes that. Also, if you are a serious BF material, it is the right thing to contact her. If you are just a guy to get laid, it is the wrong thing to contact her too much.
Duckduckgoose Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Just text a little but don't call. Save calling for steady dating. Its not a rule set in stone... if your texting leads to calling earlier than steady dating then you just won the internets! As a woman I would not like it too much if I guy I been on one date with was calling me, but texting now and then would be okay. Spell check flags "texting" as a misspelled word. It needs to get with the times!
sammyd Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 She's arranged to go on a second date with you which probably means she likes you..........and if she likes you she won't mind getting a friendly text from you. Yep, i agree with this:)
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