hockeyman80 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 (edited) ahhhhhhh my head. I deeply care about this girl although I've already lost her. She keeps telling me I'm not good enough for her. I NC with her but our university is SO small that she continues to say it to my face. I keep getting blamed for not caring enough and not fighting hard enough to show I care for her. She told me today that part of the reason I lost her is because I'm not supportive of her when she goes away on trips. I always hated when she went away on trips because she gets drunk beyond belief and usually grinds guys behind my back. Caught her at it a few times and now I hate when she goes away. She never did do anything to convince me not to be worried about it. It's not fair, she went away for 6 weeks in the summer for school to a different state and basically went on one big party and called me selfish for wanting to talk to her once a day. She ignored me for bascally the whole time she was there and didn't even want to come home. I've been through all the bad times with her and now she has the nerve to say to my face that I'm not supportive enough of her when she goes away. Says shes going to confront me again tomorrow because she isn't done confronting me yet. What do I do? I'm so stressed out these past few weeks I've tried to "show I cared" before I decided to give up and she still said I didn't try enough. She just wants to continue to bash me to no end after I repeatedly tried to work things out with her and she wouldn't bite. Now she has the nerve to say I hurt her so much. WHAT?!?!?!?! I'm not supportive of her cause she's shady sometimes and gave me reasons to think that. I think she's manipulating the **** out of me. I can't go a single day without seeing her cause of our school. I can't go to a bar for a drink on the weekend to clear my mind because she'll always be there. I can't really leave my house at all. Our area is so small. Anyone been through anything similar? Edited February 4, 2011 by hockeyman80
Username37 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Bro, I'm going through this **** now. My ex has a new boyfriend and I ALWAYS see them at school holding hands and kissing. It's sickening considering she was my first love. Best thing you can do it be strong and don't let if affect you. It's tough but you have no choice. Good luck to you bro
smudge21 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 Sadly one of the worse downsides of going out with someone who you have to see either in a business or social sense is the fact you'll still see them when things fall apart. I know the mistake and yet I still make it at places I work at. My current 'issue' is someone I still have to see and stay in touch with due to work. I'm having to act like I'm okay with it and we at least get along as friends, but there's no denying it's eating me up inside. The only real solution is to get away as best you can from seeing her. Dating others won't help as she's still there, and you'll still pine for her everytime she walks past. It will be unfair on whoever you see next as well.
marqueemoon4 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 she says you're not good enough for her? she's really laid down the gauntlet with that statement. prove her wrong by finding someone better for yourself.
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