gjpax1 Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 So i work with this girl, and she has told me that she really liked me, everytime im at work she is always all over me, we flirt all the time. She came on really strong. She did drink text me all the time, and even called me a couple times at like 4A.M. Anyways some of the things she told me kind of made me feel like she thought i was the greatest guy on earth. The first time we hung out we made out. I kind of played a very passive role so far, and i think as soon as i started showing a little interest it's like she flipped a switch. Well, i havn't worked in about a week due to some circumstances, and i've asked her out, and asked her if she wanted to hang out. She keeps declining and doesn't suggest another time she just keeps saying "I'm super busy" Anyways it's obvious to me that her personality seemed to change a little bit. She didn't say the same things she was saying and today i saw her at school and we hugged briefly and she said she was in a hurry and left (seemed very uninterested). She still does always text me. My question is how fast can woman's feelings change towards men? (because it has been like 4 days since i've notice her change, is this playing hard to get?) or is she just playing some kind of game?
fishtaco Posted February 4, 2011 Posted February 4, 2011 LOL. This is just how it is. What you should do is just take everything at face value and go with the flow. If she's willing to continue to build the relationship, proceed. If she ignores you, give her space and hit on someone else. If she comes back later, and you haven't gotten tired of her or found someone better, proceed. If she doesn't come back, who cares? You've moved on to other women anyway. If she comes back and you're seeing someone else already, even better! Now you have options. Women can't be predicted. If you think she won't change her mind, she will. If you think she will change her mind, she won't. So just go with the flow.
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