Can someone predict his reaction to this? Was this romantic? Do guys like this stuff?

[Bribrigirl08]

:oWell, I am in the process of trying to win my boyfriend back. He and I haven’t spoken for a bit. Obviously we had a falling out. I felt bad and I wanted to take the first step to try to win his heart back. I admit I went a little all out. I made homemade brownies for him and wrote “I’

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sorry” on them. I also bought his favorite beer for him. I wrote him a letter and told him how I feel and how sorry I am. I put all this into a bag with his name on it. I then drove 90 miles out of my way to his place (he lives out of town), and left the bad with all this on his doorstep, knowing he would be getting soon home to see it there. I then went home. I really hope I didn’t make him mad, or upset him. Does this kind of thing work on a guy? Would anyone here be able to predict his reaction to me and all this?

[SDA]

It all depends on what happened, how he feels, and if he's ready i guess.

 

If it were me I'd like it and depending on the circumstances I'd take the next step from there.

 

If you cheated I'd throw it out.

[Bribrigirl08]

I would NEVER cheat on him!

[SDA]

I would NEVER cheat on him!

 

Sorry sorry, I don't know your story, wasn't trying to insult you at all.

 

I think it all depends on the circumstances.

[Wilie]

Would need to know more of what happened etc etc...

[0hpenelope]

You are brave, bbgirl. Best of luck in your attempts.

[Shatter3d]

Who broke up with who? And how long has it been etc?

[Bribrigirl08]

He and I got into an argument over somthing stupid. He thought I was cheating on him, and like I said before. I would NEVER cheat on him! It had to do with my past divorce and money my ex-husband owed me. He got mad and didn't want to speak to me again. It has been like this for a week. I just thought I would put myself out there and show him that I was really sorry about the fight and I really truly care about him, and if I was a cheater, I would not go out of my way to do somthing out of the ordinary like this for him. Where should I go from here?

[FryFish]

Why did he think you cheated on him?

[quapa]

Why did he think you cheated on him?

 

i concur. and why were you sorry?

[Eddie Edirol]

Assuming you didnt Do something to make him run away, it sounds like he used the argument to break it off. Sounds like he either wanted to break up with you for a while now, or he is accusing you of cheating to cover up for him cheating. Bottom line, it sounds like he made up his mind and doesnt want to be with you. Your best move now is to leave him alone and move on with your life until he decides to come back. Sending him gifts wont make him feel any different, he'll just scoff it off.

[NeNinja]

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend in February and she did almost exactly the same thing. She wrote me a really sweet e-mail about how she was willing to wait 'forever' for me to figure things out and change my mind.

 

She lived two hours away but the next day I got home from work and she was waiting with dinner and a bag of some of my favorite things: Sour Patch Kids, Twix, Stride Gum, and the G.I. Joes I had wanted since I was six or seven. (She had found them online and ordered them for my birthday.)

 

She ended up staying the night and I ended up taking her back (in that order.) The reason it worked for her was because A: I was really on the fence about the break up and B: It was really 'against type' for her. She wasn't/isn't the kind of girl to beg, plead, or put herself out there.