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Do you see the same pattern with 2nd chances??


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I've been doing nothing but for the past week read forums about second successful chances all over the internet in hopes of one day being with my ex again. Everyone's situation is unique and different but it's usually all the same when getting back together:

1. Letting go

2. Moving on and healing

3. Making yourself a better person and LIVING life

4. Keep in touch with ex after healed

 

and then after you keep in touch/become friendly again....that's when it happens. You guys either end up back together whether it's weeks, months, or a year (usually months to years..it's all different but still a long time between). Either that, or you've moved on and are completely happy with life whether you have your ex or not. It's a Win/Win. I'm already trying to let go and move on...I haven't reached the "LIVE LIFE" part yet...

 

I need a makeover, I need to dump some crappy friends and all the negative people in my life, I need to travel and do things I wish I did, I need to realize mistakes I made in my relationship...

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Yeah, sounds about right from what I've read, too. Come to think of it, I did have an ex re-connect (I was the dumper) but he just wanted to apologize. Sometimes I wonder if I'll be given the chance to learn what second chances are about with any ex of mine, but it hasn't happened... yet. ;)

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