kandi13 Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 ok well to make a very long story short I DONT WANT A BOYFRIEND!!!! Ok had to get that off my chest, im better off being alone because the last person I loved broke my heart and I still miss him. Well I just talked to that guy 5 mins ago and things arent the same, when we were together, and now another guy likes me and asked me out I told him Id get back to him and I have him waiting I donno an easy way to just plain out say no I dont want you or any guy cuz there all pigs!!!!! (sorry guys) I just am so sick of gettin hurt and I know im better off alone wut should I say to this guy??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!
jenny Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 just say you do not want to date right now. that should suffice, you do not have to explain your history or your reasoning to this guy.
viciouscancer Posted March 24, 2004 Posted March 24, 2004 dont think all men are jerks. u just havent found one whi is true. but i guess in a relationships, things tend to get hard sometimes. especially after 5 years. just try ur hardest to feel this new guy out. without judging him so fast. if ur not interested in a guy right now. then flat out say it. thats all u have to do. its not hard. it seems u might be allittle interested in him, but trusting is hard for u... i feel ur pain. viciouscancer
priscilla Posted March 24, 2004 Posted March 24, 2004 Just tell him you recently broke up and are not quite over your ex, and that it wouldn't be fair to this new guy to start dating at this point in your life. He will understand and appreciate this because I don't think too many guys want to start dating a girl right after a break up. I am worried about your anger. Look at it as a learning experience and then gradually you will be able to move on and find the right person. You will now have a better understanding of what you don't want in a relationship.
dolphinsunshyn Posted March 24, 2004 Posted March 24, 2004 I know exactly how you feel, girl! I'm about 2 minutes away from becoming a lesbian! There is a serious shortage of decent guys and I have found that even the "nice" ones still like to play games. My weekend ritual now consists of my vibrator, porn, and Ben & Jerrys. LOL! What's a girl to do?!?
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