Eddie Edirol Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 SWFC, either admit that you like the attention from her because you feel it empowers you, or tell her straight up to stop contacting you permanently, and then block her number from your phone, or dont answer the calls and texts. If you tell her straight up dont ever contact me again, she will stop.
spackle Posted February 5, 2011 Posted February 5, 2011 Some people won't even **** off when you tell them to OR they do for a short time because they think you're mad, wait a while till they think you've calmed down and start all over. n.b I for one can't block numbers on my phone plus I also use it for business - for one jerk I should have to change numbers, get business cards reprinted etc?
Author swfc_77 Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 "SWFC, either admit that you like the attention from her because you feel it empowers you, or tell her straight up to stop contacting you permanently, and then block her number from your phone, or dont answer the calls and texts. If you tell her straight up dont ever contact me again, she will stop." i have told her to stop contacting me several times, i did block her on a new handset i bought, but changed back to my older handset because the new 1 was getting full of sh..ite at work and she got me on a new number anyway. i do not want attention, i would like to be left in peace to be honest with you, i feel alot better when i hear nothing for 5-6 weeks, when she contacts me, it gets on my nerves and annoys me. stopthemadness - So am reading these posts and thinking, if you just tell her not to contact you anymore. Thats all it would take! she would get the message. like i'v said i have told her several times to stop, she does for about 4-5 weeks then starts again. im not into game playing, i like to be straight up with people and expect the same in return, this power thing people talk of is nothing to me, im hoping that she just gets bored and leaves me alone, its been 5 months now.
Author swfc_77 Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 and before people start accusing me of "lovin" the attention, i'v writ it down here to share my experience with people. im not here asking any questions, i know what to do, i know what she is doing. she doen't want me back, she just wants to know whats going off in my life, and wants to keep me on the hook, she miss's having me as a friend and someone to support her. im sharing my experience of my first break up with people, im not asking how to deal with it, because i know how. i am just sharing with you guys how difficult it still can be even when both parties are over each other. so if your going to get keyboard giddy and try to point out the obvious to me, make sure you read the post's correctly and not mistake me venting a little for questions im not asking.
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