shann-x Posted February 3, 2011 Posted February 3, 2011 hey everyone, Well about 3 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend who i was in a relationship with for 9 months. I broke up with him because things just was not the same any more and we were constantly arguing and there was so much stress and tension between us so i asked for a break. He was gutted and i feel so guilty for it because he was so nice to me and loved me so much and looking back i wasn't nice at all. So anyway recently i have really started to miss him like so much i am always down and depressed and dont know what to do my friends have noticed it but i cant talk to them about it, well i can a few but i dont go into as much depth as i am now. I barley eat and i mope around and hardly go out, and i have this horrible feeling inside me that just wont go that makes me want to cry all the time I still speak to him everyday, if i dont then i get upset and feel lost. I have told him how i feel and he kinda said the same with me but its all so complicated. One day he seems all up for getting back with me but then others he dosent seem interested and i just do not know what to do any more, it just dosent seem to be going anywhere but i dont want to let go because i love him to much. I know it is all my fault because i am the one who ended things, but back then i just couldn't cope with it all but i know realise that i have made a big mistake. Please help me! Thank you x
TheThinker Posted February 3, 2011 Posted February 3, 2011 hey everyone, Well about 3 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend who i was in a relationship with for 9 months. I broke up with him because things just was not the same any more and we were constantly arguing and there was so much stress and tension between us so i asked for a break. He was gutted and i feel so guilty for it because he was so nice to me and loved me so much and looking back i wasn't nice at all. So anyway recently i have really started to miss him like so much i am always down and depressed and dont know what to do my friends have noticed it but i cant talk to them about it, well i can a few but i dont go into as much depth as i am now. I barley eat and i mope around and hardly go out, and i have this horrible feeling inside me that just wont go that makes me want to cry all the time I still speak to him everyday, if i dont then i get upset and feel lost. I have told him how i feel and he kinda said the same with me but its all so complicated. One day he seems all up for getting back with me but then others he dosent seem interested and i just do not know what to do any more, it just dosent seem to be going anywhere but i dont want to let go because i love him to much. I know it is all my fault because i am the one who ended things, but back then i just couldn't cope with it all but i know realise that i have made a big mistake. Please help me! Thank you x Tell him how you feel properly but be strong when you tell him it. He will know you miss him because of the level of contact you still have. Why not invite him out on a date ??
Author shann-x Posted February 3, 2011 Author Posted February 3, 2011 Thank you for replying! i know i should do that, but when i try to i crap it and try and i try to phrase up what im really trying to say if that makes sense? :/
Shatter3d Posted February 3, 2011 Posted February 3, 2011 Why dont you try emailing him instead telling him how you feel and ask him out for a coffee or something?
Author shann-x Posted February 3, 2011 Author Posted February 3, 2011 Thank you for replying! and well i have texted him about it, and i think i do it quiet alot so i always feel like i am mithering him about it :/ well the thing is, he asks me to go out quiet alot but then he always has to cancel because something big has come up :/
TheThinker Posted February 3, 2011 Posted February 3, 2011 You have got the one thing that a lot of people on here actually want - control of the situation. Its in your hands in terms of you broke it off ... If he still loves you then you will get back together and you will realise the things you want. if it does happen, take it slowly, dont rush things ...
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