PegNosePete Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Jeeze 2long, do you know how hard it is to read your posts with every instance of "to" or "too" replaced with "2", especially when it's part of another word such as took? Sorry for the t/j, I was just reading 2long's reply which seemed interesting and relevant, but I got about half way and just couldn't be bothered translating any more. It's like reading a text message from a 12 year old.
Author Lance22 Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 Went to court for my drink driving (caused by g/f in my opinion but I did it so have to take responsibity) the outcome was better than I thought and I think the mitigating circumstances explained here helped. I was totally honest. Anyway I want it all over now but know it doesnt work that way so I'm stuck in hell a bit longer, however as each bit gets resolved I'm getting closer to being me again. I can't say how much I appreciate the help and advice from everyone here. You have all been lifesavers.
sammyd Posted February 24, 2011 Posted February 24, 2011 Hey Lance, Glad u posted. Onwards and upwards:) Like you said, that's another step closer to getting all this in the past. Hope you're holding up ok. It will get easier with time, cliche i know, but very true. Anyway, keep posting, even if just for a chit chat:) Lifesavers?? Nah (I'll make u wear a life jacket!! lol)
Author Lance22 Posted February 26, 2011 Author Posted February 26, 2011 Hi Sammy, yes hanging in there. In some ways a new life is excititing , and others so scary. The house thing is moving on but realisticallly it will be a few months. Any advice out there how to get my daughter to see a counciller at least once because shes caught in the middle and it's not her fault at all. I really want the damage to her to be minimal. She refuses to go even though both me and my partner want her to go on her own. ideas?
sammyd Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Hey Lance, how's it going? Re your daughter, does her school have anything in place for councilling? Maybe they could help, or at least keep an eye on her without being intrusive? Haven't heard from you in a few days, so hope you're holding up ok.
Author Lance22 Posted March 9, 2011 Author Posted March 9, 2011 X and me are trying to get her to go to councilling, so far she refuses but I think thats because shes 13 and doesnt realise whats going on. I wish I could snap my fingers and get this overwith but it doesnt work that way. I still feel like I'm in a long tunnel but can just begin to see the light at the end of it. I'm feeling a little better, baby steps. X seems to be going backwards which whilst I know is mean gives me some satisfaction. I will get there in the end. Still worried about our daughter and what this has taught her about relationships.
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