Questionable1 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I've been dating this guy for 3 months now and although we are both busy people in grad school, we've made time to see each other. We average about seeing each other 2x/week, which works well because it gives us enough space for "me time," spending time with friends, and of course doing school-related things. However, this spring and summer is going to be challenging. For the most part, my schedule is going to be flexible but his is going to be chaotic with school because it will involve him making multiple trips out of the city for days at a time as well as working long hours in the lab. He was upfront to me about his schedule when we first started dating so I can't say that I'm surprised by this. I knew what I was getting myself into by dating him. I have plenty of things to do to keep me occupied when he's busy with school, but it's him that I'm worried about. I don't know why I have this fear but I'm worried that he's slowly going to fade away from the relationship when we don't see each other as often as we do now. He hasn't given me any indication that he will do that so I'm not sure why I'm worried. But it just seems inevitable that if we end up seeing each other once every 2 weeks or so (this is how it gets when his schedule is bad) that things are going to crumble. Thoughts?
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