DLFresh Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Thanks to all for reading and responding...I will try to make this brief My Girlfriend and I have been together almost 3 years and lived together the last year and 1/2. Our lease is up in 2 months and she stated that she wanted to get her own place and said she loved me but wasn't sure if I was the right guy for her and she couldn't explain but there was a certain connection missing. There have been communication issues in the past but no major fighting...we have also talked about marriage and kids in the past (that we both wanted) I do love her deeply and do not want it to end...I told her I respect her decision and I understand and maybe space would do us some good, but that I did not want to end our relationship. She stated she still wants me in her life and hopefully we can still date in the future, but is just unsure and says she needs to figure out the direction she wants to go in. Everything is very civil between us...My question is, it is very hard living together for the next 2 months and how should I approach that since it's a constant reminder and it hurts? Also, does anyone think (based on this limited information) that we could work things out in the future, or should I just walk away completely and move on? We both had some very good times in the past...more good than what outways the bad...Thank you!
PegNosePete Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 You should move on. She has given your relationship the death knell. When a woman says she wants space and wants to figure things out and needs to "find herself" - it means she has checked out of your relationship already. As to what to do in the 2 months, well whose name is the lease in? If yours, kick her out. If hers, move out. If joint, well, make a decision who will move out.
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