i have had to split up with my girlfriend but we are still in love (heartbroken)

[lovethatgirl]

hello, . please dont take me as a bad person

me and my girlfriend had to split up yesterday and it has broke my heart in to two coz we r still in love madly wiv each other.

i recently got put in to jail for a minor sex offence which was texts too a girl aged 15 any way when i got out me and my girlfriend was fine she stood by me through out the sentence,when i got out she wanted me to tell her mum that i got found not guilty coz it was too embaressing and it was hurting us both about it. so yesterday some body said somet to her mum and her mum said she was goin to tell her social worker coz she is a foster carer and she was worried somet myt happen i made sure that i never breached my conditions or any thing. my girlfriend was heart broken and told me she didnt want to finish wiv me but she had to do coz she didnt want her mum to hate her for lying to her and that she think her mum would disown her.i know tht her mum will be upset about it at first but she is a wonderful woman and i know she will never disown her or out like tht we both love each other wiv all our hearts and we always will do i just have lost a huge part of my life, over 4 years we was together and now i just dont know wat to do, i feel sick all the time and worried and i want my angel back she is everything to me. i wanted to tell her the truth yesterday but my girlfriend is to afraid tht she will hate her i wud rather not be allowed to her house because of the foster kids then lose her all together, i have planned my life around her and she has wiv me she really is my life and i love her to bits, my life is nothing wiv out her and not worth living, please contact me back many thanks ..... k

[lovethatgirl]

i just wanted to add tht the girl told me she was 17 and her fb said she was 17 too im not a bad person just had sum very bad luck in the past. we have split up out of love coz she is scare of her mum goin mad at her and falling out wiv her but i dont see why she would i love her and she loves me her mum and dad know this i just wouldnt go around to the house if they didnt want me there but i love this girl and i cant bare the thought of not beeing wiv her. some body must have a bit of advice for me. she has told me she is hurting and that i am hurting its killing me i need her back....... please take your time to write somet back to me so i have got somet to look at and read please

Edited February 2, 2011 by lovethatgirl

[lovethatgirl]

hello, . please dont take me as a bad person

me and my girlfriend had to split up yesterday and it has broke my heart in to two coz we r still in love madly wiv each other.

i recently got put in to jail for a minor sex offence which was texts too a girl aged 15 any way when i got out me and my girlfriend was fine she stood by me through out the sentence,when i got out she wanted me to tell her mum that i got found not guilty coz it was too embaressing and it was hurting us both about it. so yesterday some body said somet to her mum and her mum said she was goin to tell her social worker coz she is a foster carer and she was worried somet myt happen i made sure that i never breached my conditions or any thing. my girlfriend was heart broken and told me she didnt want to finish wiv me but she had to do coz she didnt want her mum to hate her for lying to her and that she think her mum would disown her.i know tht her mum will be upset about it at first but she is a wonderful woman and i know she will never disown her or out like tht we both love each other wiv all our hearts and we always will do i just have lost a huge part of my life, over 4 years we was together and now i just dont know wat to do, i feel sick all the time and worried and i want my angel back she is everything to me. i wanted to tell her the truth yesterday but my girlfriend is to afraid tht she will hate her i wud rather not be allowed to her house because of the foster kids then lose her all together, i have planned my life around her and she has wiv me she really is my life and i love her to bits, my life is nothing wiv out her and not worth living, please contact me back many thanks ..... k

 

i just wanted to add tht the girl told me she was 17 and her fb said she was 17 too im not a bad person just had sum very bad luck in the past. we have split up out of love coz she is scare of her mum goin mad at her and falling out wiv her but i dont see why she would i love her and she loves me her mum and dad know this i just wouldnt go around to the house if they didnt want me there but i love this girl and i cant bare the thought of not beeing wiv her. some body must have a bit of advice for me. she has told me she is hurting and that i am hurting its killing me i need her back....... please take your time to write somet back to me so i have got somet to look at and read please

 

Isn't it funny how when you think you finally have a grip on something it's gone like the wind? And all you are left to do is search until you give up. But I haven't given up on you yet and i never will.

Edited February 2, 2011 by lovethatgirl

[D78]

It's kind of hard to understand your post.

 

Are you saying - you were in love with your girlfriend, but you texted another girl. Apparently you sent some racy things to the other girl, because you got arrested for it, as she was only 15.

 

Your girlfriend's mom has foster children, so she's afraid of having you over because she could lose the foster children.

 

Your girlfriend's mom may or may not know about the jail time you served for texting an underage girl. Your girlfriend wanted you to tell her mom that you were found not guilty.

 

So you broke up with your girlfriend.

 

Is all that right?

[lovethatgirl]

me and my girlfriend are still in lover wiv eachother, my little brother was texting a girl off my phone and the police cum and i tuk the charge coz i thought they wouldnt be able to prove nothing or out like that coz she said she was 17 and her facebook profile said she was 17 too. somebody said somet to my girlfriends mum and now she is just paniking about what if she was wiv a social worker or some one like that so my girlfriends mum said to my girlfriend im goin to have to mention it to the social worker, and obviously we have told her mum tht i got found not guilty to hide all the hurt and embaressment tht i got caused as it wasnt me who done somet wrong, my girlfriends mum also knows it was my lil bro but she still only thinks i got a not guilty. so if she tells the social workers then they will find out and both of our lives will be ruined so we have had to split up coz of it, its like we have split up out of love for each other, its breaking my heart she come to see me last nyt and we was la kissing and cuddlin and we must of told each other a thousand times we are in love. i think its even more hard coz she was having my baby not long back and she slipped and fell down a few small steps and miscarriaged and this hurt me but i could look forward to the future but now i just dont think there willl be one. we told each other last nyt we will try sort this out and there has got to be some way around it and intill we find that way then we are going to stay best friends just like we was wen we was together.

[D78]

Okay, that makes more sense. But who is the social worker and why does he or she matter?

 

How old is your girlfriend? Couldn't she just leave home, or is she too young?

[lovethatgirl]

she is 22 same age as me the social worker is the person who sorts my gf mums foster kids out she has two of them you see so she dosnt want to end up losing there kids if u know wat i mean, and i suppose she could leave home and live with me but i dont think its really that whats holding her back its more that her mum may fall out wiv her dis own her or never trust her again or somet. i have been with my girlfriend tonyt and everything is cool we are still bff's and that but the pain in my heart is still great i just cant talk to her about anything coz i keep thinking we are still together and its just stilll so hard