Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 No that wasn't the joke. Ok. So where do you see I wrote this information? You brought up an older post I responded to, when I said I'm not attracted to Black men. How is that a stereotype? And how did I stereotype in this thread? I already explained why I mentioned the women are Hispanic. No place in this thread did I say all Hispanic origin women are trashy. So I'm just looking for clarification.
depplover_1980 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I said there was some stereotyping occuring - in that you are presuming that because a woman dresses trashy she is a slut. This is not the case. Girlygirl jokes that I was 'starting something' based on you saying that about her post earlier up. So I joked back to Girlygirl for lightheartedly stirring trouble.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 I said there was some stereotyping occuring - in that you are presuming that because a woman dresses trashy she is a slut. This is not the case. Girlygirl jokes that I was 'starting something' based on you saying that about her post earlier up. So I joked back to Girlygirl for lightheartedly stirring trouble. I never said that because these women dress trashy means they are promiscuous...omg.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 I said there was some stereotyping occuring - in that you are presuming that because a woman dresses trashy she is a slut. This is not the case. When did I say that if a woman dresses a certain way means she has sex with several men? I was referring to the "trashy" part regarding the behavior they are exhibiting and lack of clothes they are wearing. Other people posted and brought in the the "sexual" part. I have no way of knowing how many men these women have been with.
depplover_1980 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Read back to the beginning of the thread and all the way through. You definately makes stereotypes about these types of women, infact it is laden with them. Now if these particular 2 are causing you problems in the building I can understand you being pissed off with them, but you definately come across as snobby and with a chip on your shoulder in places.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Read back to the beginning of the thread and all the way through. You definately makes stereotypes about these types of women, infact it is laden with them. Now if these particular 2 are causing you problems in the building I can understand you being pissed off with them, but you definately come across as snobby and with a chip on your shoulder in places. I actually did look all the way through and no place did I say anything about any sexual with these girls. I actually responded to another guy when he said women that are more on the "trashy" side are less inhibited in bed. I told him that just because a woman like myself doesn't sleep with several men doesn't mean we don't like being sexual behind closed doors.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Read back to the beginning of the thread and all the way through. You definately makes stereotypes about these types of women, infact it is laden with them. Now if these particular 2 are causing you problems in the building I can understand you being pissed off with them, but you definately come across as snobby and with a chip on your shoulder in places. I don't think its snobby at all. I have standards. I don't wear dresses without underwear and than bend over so everyone can see my business. I think its rude to scream outside someones window at 2am. I have school and a job and have to get up in the morning. These women dress and act in a less than desirable way. Thats the truth.
depplover_1980 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Your attitude stinks blondie, you think you're better than these types of women and look down your nose at people. I believe you called them skanks at some point. Argue all you like but it is plain to see in your posts.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Your attitude stinks blondie, you think you're better than these types of women and look down your nose at people. I believe you called them skanks at some point. Argue all you like but it is plain to see in your posts. I think I have better standards, yes. There is a time and place for everything. If you feel that walking around with no underwear on and than bending over so you can see everything, is ok, that is strange to me. You enjoy being kept up at night, when you have a busy day coming up? I don't approve of this behavior so if YOU think that makes me a snob, so be it.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 OP, you can argue all you like, but your posts are being responded to in a certain way ... because that is what those reading your posts are getting out of them. You STILL have not answered the question, "why do you care?" Honestly, the fact that you even started such a thread really does communicate a sense that YOU are better than these "skanks" (how I hate that word) and you just want to make sure that the world of LS readers knows it. How come?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 OP, you can argue all you like, but your posts are being responded to in a certain way ... because that is what those reading your posts are getting out of them. You STILL have not answered the question, "why do you care?" Honestly, the fact that you even started such a thread really does communicate a sense that YOU are better than these "skanks" (how I hate that word) and you just want to make sure that the world of LS readers knows it. How come? Again I already explained this. I'm curious about men that enjoy these "types" of women. I wanted to better understand the attraction factor. Because I don't see anything attractive about it. I don't think that the behavior they exhibit is acceptable.
depplover_1980 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Your changing tactics too now - trying to focus on the things these particular 2 do to annoy you, when really your original post was more generic about 'what do men see in women like them?' By doing this you hope to get some weight behind your argument. Most of your irritating posts have been ones with your generic attitude towards these 'types of women'. Only in your eyes are you better than them because you seem to think you have class, but being highly judgemental is not a classy thing in my eyes.
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Because I don't see anything attractive about it. I don't think that the behavior they exhibit is acceptable. Perhaps this will shed some light. Unless your hair color prevents you from understanding. Now who's stereotyping? haha
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Your changing tactics too now - trying to focus on the things these particular 2 do to annoy you, when really your original post was more generic about 'what do men see in women like them?' By doing this you hope to get some weight behind your argument. Most of your irritating posts have been ones with your generic attitude towards these 'types of women'. Only in your eyes are you better than them because you seem to think you have class, but being highly judgemental is not a classy thing in my eyes. Yes - what do men see in women like THEM- exactly. Women that dress the way I explained and behave in the way I explained. And the screaming at 2am and bending over so the neighborhood adults and children can see everything, doesn't only offend me. I have heard similar complaints from other residents. Why do you see the behavior I have explained as anything else?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Perhaps this will shed some light. Unless your hair color prevents you from understanding. Now who's stereotyping? haha Now that is mature, lol. I'm just asking what race or nationality it is I'm stereotyping?
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Listen, OP. You clearly have no idea how crass you are coming across in your posts. The only post you seemed to "agree" with to explain the preferences of these men was the post that suggested they couldn't do any better. This reinforces your image of yourself in that you are "better" than them, hence why they are with them and wouldn't think twice about you. So to answer your question, these men are with these women because you are better than everyone else.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Listen, OP. You clearly have no idea how crass you are coming across in your posts. The only post you seemed to "agree" with to explain the preferences of these men was the post that suggested they couldn't do any better. This reinforces your image of yourself in that you are "better" than them, hence why they are with them and wouldn't think twice about you. So to answer your question, these men are with these women because you are better than everyone else. You can't answer my question about how I'm stereotyping either. Because I didn't. Maybe there are some in this forum that act this way and they are offended by what I said.
Seamless74 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 trashy and pretentious are both equally unattractive....
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Listen, OP. You clearly have no idea how crass you are coming across in your posts. The only post you seemed to "agree" with to explain the preferences of these men was the post that suggested they couldn't do any better. This reinforces your image of yourself in that you are "better" than them, hence why they are with them and wouldn't think twice about you. So to answer your question, these men are with these women because you are better than everyone else. Yes I do think my behavior and dress is more acceptable. I don't think it is socially acceptable to show your "goods" to people didn't ask for it. And I think its quite rude to wake up the neighborhood at 2am.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 trashy and pretentious are both equally unattractive.... Do you bend over to show your birth canal to your neighbors??? just askin...
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 You can't answer my question about how I'm stereotyping either. I'm not accusing you of that. I was responding to the original post. I threw in my blonde stereotype because it seemed fitting for the direction the thread had turned
Taramere Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Years ago, I worked with a woman who must have weighed close to 300 pounds. She was a horrible person who constantly cheated on her diet, and constantly cheated on her husband. It staggered me that she found willing participants to aid and abet her in her infidelities, but she did. She was extremely aggressive. I'm not sure if the quiet mousy men she tended to cheat on her husband with were particularly attracted to her, or whether she just swept them up into her infidelity plans (and into her vagina) like an enormous human hoover. I would suspect the latter, but I disliked the woman a lot so obviously I was predisposed to reaching the conclusion that would be least flattering to her. Anyway, I don't really know why you're getting so much stick over your post. Presumably it's because you mentioned that they were Hispanic...but the kind of person you're describing is represented in every nationality/race. It seems reasonable to me that somebody would ask why, in real life, men often hook up with loud, overweight, aggressive women when they spend so much time slagging them off on the Internet. Then again, does one really need to ask a question with such an obvious answer?
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I don't think it is socially acceptable to show your "goods" to people didn't ask for it. I imagine that ultimately depends on if they really are "goods" or if they are in actuality "bads" ;x bahahahahaha
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Years ago, I worked with a woman who must have weighed close to 300 pounds. She was a horrible person who constantly cheated on her diet, and constantly cheated on her husband. It staggered me that she found willing participants to aid and abet her in her infidelities, but she did. She was extremely aggressive. I'm not sure if the quiet mousy men she tended to cheat on her husband with were particularly attracted to her, or whether she just swept them up into her infidelity plans (and into her vagina) like an enormous human hoover. I would suspect the latter, but I disliked the woman a lot so obviously I was predisposed to reaching the conclusion that would be least flattering to her. Anyway, I don't really know why you're getting so much stick over your post. Presumably it's because you mentioned that they were Hispanic...but the kind of person you're describing is represented in every nationality/race. It seems reasonable to me that somebody would ask why, in real life, men often hook up with loud, overweight, aggressive women when they spend so much time slagging them off on the Internet. Then again, does one really need to ask a question with such an obvious answer? I already said why I brought up the nationality 4 times. If someone doesn't get it by now, fine.
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