MrNate Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Interesting lol. (taking out race) Just flip that around, and think how many men ask themselves why she's with that jobless, no good man. The answer is simple, really: Attraction isn't a choice.
MrNate Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Latin women are my kryptonite. good taste man, good taste.
fishtaco Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Maybe because they're not pretentious. Maybe because they don't change their minds every 5 minutes. Maybe because they can suck a tennis ball through a garden hose. Maybe because they make a mean sammich. I have a weakness for Latin women as well. Ay Diesel T and I would not get along. We'd be going for the same chicks. But I like MrNate's post. Attraction isn't a choice.
zengirl Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I live in apartment building and have 2 neighbors (both women) both hispanic, one in her late thirties and the other in her early twenties. They are both very rude, loud, inconsiderate and dress trashy. Yet they both have boyfriends that seem like normal, nice guys. I don't understand this stuff. What do men see in women like that? Both the guys are caucasion. Maybe its a fetish they have for hispanic women? These aren't exactly attractive women either. Sorry maybe I'm ranting since I can't stand them or their behavior, but I don't get it. I doubt it's a fetish. I imagine these aren't the only two Latinas in town, and their behavior has nothing to do with that anyway. Plenty of men won't mind a woman dressing trashy. Not my cuppa, and I don't think my BF would dig it wholesale, but he's preppy and even he asks why I 'tame' down my short dresses with leggings and tights all the time and why I thrown a tank under my low-cut dresses to avoid cleavage. Plenty of men like to see what you've got. Loud can be fun, and perhaps they're not rude and inconsiderate to their BFs or people they know. Maybe they're just people that aren't your cuppa. I mean, you don't really know them, do you? They could be perfectly sweet, smart, loyal GFs to these guys. People are often different than they appear anyway.
mo mo Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I think it's funny that ethnicity was mentioned in the OP. This conversation wouldn't be any different if ethnicity was never mentioned. That said, those women are with these guys for a few reasons. 1) They're probably easy 2) Their attitude exhibits a raw confidence rarely seen in women. This can be funny and a turn-on for some men. 3) Some men actually like to be bossed around by women like these.
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 OP, why would you care that these men are with these women? The question reeks of jealousy.
Woggle Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Because many women who are what you what you would call trashy are often loads of fun and underneath all the weird clothes and heavy makeup many actually have hearts of gold. A man can be himself and kick back around these women without worrying if she will catch an attitude. Many so called classy women have huge chips on their shoulder and underneath that respectable exterior they might cheat on a guy or try to run his life I see the same here with many Italian guidette types. They cut off your balls if you cheat on them or mistreat them but if you treat them right they will treat you like a king.
Mme. Chaucer Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 OP, why would you care that these men are with these women? My question as well. We like what we like. What is it to you? Are you interested in either guy? Also, I realize that you were not trying to equate trashy with Hispanic, but I think that there was no good reason to include the race of these women. Lots of guys are attracted to trashiness, there are entire industries catering to that.
Cee Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Hey Sarcastic Blonde, I have a question for you. When you say "Hispanic" what women do you specifically mean? Let me see if I make a list for you of the origin of the people I have had as boyfriends, neighbors, coworkers, and friends. Naturally, there are many other countries, but these are the only ones I know personally: Cuban Mexican Dominican Haitian (I guess that doesn't count) Puerto Rican El Salvadoran Guatemalan Panamanian Venezuelan (He would have been insulted by "Hispanic") Argetinian Chilean Columbian Brazilian Oh yeah, Spain, but of course that's Europe, so no trashy women there. Oh and a follow-up, you do know that many Latino countries are multi-cultural with a mix of European, African, Asian, and indigenous/native ethinicities, right?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 My question as well. We like what we like. What is it to you? Are you interested in either guy? Also, I realize that you were not trying to equate trashy with Hispanic, but I think that there was no good reason to include the race of these women. Lots of guys are attracted to trashiness, there are entire industries catering to that. I already explained why I mentioned that they were hispanic. Anyway, no I'm not intertested in either guy. Cmon, I have a great boyfriend. The guys these women date seem like all around nice guys and it really confused me why men would want to date women like this. I think dressing and acting with class and respect is important. So if they want to date skanks, so be it.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Hey Sarcastic Blonde, I have a question for you. When you say "Hispanic" what women do you specifically mean? Let me see if I make a list for you of the origin of the people I have had as boyfriends, neighbors, coworkers, and friends. Naturally, there are many other countries, but these are the only ones I know personally: Cuban Mexican Dominican Haitian (I guess that doesn't count) Puerto Rican El Salvadoran Guatemalan Panamanian Venezuelan (He would have been insulted by "Hispanic") Argetinian Chilean Columbian Brazilian Oh yeah, Spain, but of course that's Europe, so no trashy women there. Oh and a follow-up, you do know that many Latino countries are multi-cultural with a mix of European, African, Asian, and indigenous/native ethinicities, right? Actually women from Spain are Spanish not Hispanic.
Billy_Boy Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I live in apartment building and have 2 neighbors (both women) both hispanic, one in her late thirties and the other in her early twenties. They are both very rude, loud, inconsiderate and dress trashy. Yet they both have boyfriends that seem like normal, nice guys. I don't understand this stuff. What do men see in women like that? Both the guys are caucasion. Maybe its a fetish they have for hispanic women? These aren't exactly attractive women either. Sorry maybe I'm ranting since I can't stand them or their behavior, but I don't get it. men love sluts, but seldom marry them.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 OP, why would you care that these men are with these women? The question reeks of jealousy. I already explained that in the beginning of the post.
Nexus One Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I sense negativity here. http://tinyurl.com/4rns2lv
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 This post is more inquiring about women that dress and act in a lower class manner and the men that date them. It is not about race and that's the tone this thread is becoming.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 I sense negativity here. http://tinyurl.com/4rns2lv Some people just like to push buttons and see what they can get out of you. The only reason I mentioned that that the women are Hispanic is because the men aren't and I thought maybe they just favor women that are. Since I couldn't see of any other reason why these men would date them. Now people are responding by insinuating that I'm jealous or racist. Neither is true but I know sometimes that is how it goes on this forum.
depplover_1980 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 These 'trashy' women are probably sexual delights and really you need to look no further than that reason!
Girlygirl1977 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Here are some other race-related posts from the OP: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3209787#post3209787 unfortunately I think she keeps to only certain groups perhaps. . .so I can see why people may have brought this up here too. My mix of people is very wide (and international) so I live a bit differently but I have picked a sense of the opposite with the OP.
oaks Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 and dress trashy. Like with lots of flesh on show? and you can't see why some guys might be attracted to that? Maybe they just looked good in a dark bar after a few tequilas, and then didn't say 'no' to the advances of the guys on the dance floor and afterwards, and then turned out to be great in bed? Maybe they play a mean game of Scrabble?
StoneCold Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Trashy women allow guys to get down and dirty....reservoir dog style but they'll never take them seriously. They are the experience you think back on when you are married to a nice girl and say to yourself... "yup....I had fun".... or the girls you laugh about when you are drinking with your whipped married guy friends and say "I cont believe I did that nasty sh*t" or "the sex was off the chain bro!!"
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Here are some other race-related posts from the OP: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3209787#post3209787 unfortunately I think she keeps to only certain groups perhaps. . .so I can see why people may have brought this up here too. My mix of people is very wide (and international) so I live a bit differently but I have picked a sense of the opposite with the OP. Lol here we go! I'm in an interracial relationship so no I don't only "keep" to certain groups of people.
Girlygirl1977 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Lol here we go! I'm in an interracial relationship so no I don't only "keep" to certain groups of people. Yes that is one of the groups you keep to. I said you keep to certain groups (which means more than one). But it seems you have stereotypes for other groups and assume some things about all the members. That's what I pickup from your posts and may be what others are picking up.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Here are some other race-related posts from the OP: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3209787#post3209787 unfortunately I think she keeps to only certain groups perhaps. . .so I can see why people may have brought this up here too. My mix of people is very wide (and international) so I live a bit differently but I have picked a sense of the opposite with the OP. Another person looking to start stuff. Gotta love it.
bayouboi Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Since you claim that you don't have any feelings for these men and that you are supposedly not jealous of these women, you still have yet to explain why it matters that these men are with these women. Are these women not deserving of love because they don't fit your mold of what you think a woman is supposed to be? Are these men not deserving of love because they don't find your mold of what you think a woman is supposed to be attractive?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Yes that is one of the groups you keep to. I said you keep to certain groups (which means more than one). But it seems you have stereotypes for other groups and assume some things about all the members. That's what I pickup from your posts and may be what others are picking up. Stereotypes? How? I never said anything about one racial group of people. I just said I'm not attracted to African American men in one post. That's not a sterotype. And I never said all Hispanic women are trashy either. So just stop.
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