SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I live in apartment building and have 2 neighbors (both women) both hispanic, one in her late thirties and the other in her early twenties. They are both very rude, loud, inconsiderate and dress trashy. Yet they both have boyfriends that seem like normal, nice guys. I don't understand this stuff. What do men see in women like that? Both the guys are caucasion. Maybe its a fetish they have for hispanic women? These aren't exactly attractive women either. Sorry maybe I'm ranting since I can't stand them or their behavior, but I don't get it.
Ay Diesel T Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Some guys go for trashy because it's all they can get. Some guys don't mind a woman who isn't as conservative or that "take home to mom" type. A physically attractive woman will catch my eye and I'll make a move. After the looks though, it's always good to see where a woman's mind is at. If she isn't very classy, it's a pretty big turn off. A couple years ago I'd stick around to have fun with them, nowadays I feel like just being involved with them is a reflection on myself, and my demeanor...a negative reflection. So I tend to stay away. My guy friends all share the same views as I.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I live in apartment building and have 2 neighbors (both women) both hispanic, one in her late thirties and the other in her early twenties. They are both very rude, loud, inconsiderate and dress trashy. Yet they both have boyfriends that seem like normal, nice guys. I don't understand this stuff. What do men see in women like that? Both the guys are caucasion. Maybe its a fetish they have for hispanic women? These aren't exactly attractive women either. Sorry maybe I'm ranting since I can't stand them or their behavior, but I don't get it. I doubt it is a fetish. They probably just have attractive qualities you don't see.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 I doubt it is a fetish. They probably just have attractive qualities you don't see. If you consider rude behavior, attitudes and mini skirts that show every dimple attractive..
Star Gazer Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Why are you equating being Hispanic with being trashy?
Ay Diesel T Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Why are you equating being Hispanic with being trashy? Latin women are my kryptonite.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Why are you equating being Hispanic with being trashy? Because there is no other visible reason that I can see or knowing what I know about these women other than a fetish on the part of these men. Has nothing to do with them being hispanic. Knew that was coming.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 If you consider rude behavior, attitudes and mini skirts that show every dimple attractive.. Just because she is rude to you doesn't mean she is rude to him... and some guys like the dimples. Maybe you just don't see that they are fun, faithful, witty... ect.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Why are you equating being Hispanic with being trashy? She isn't. You are being too sensitive or too PC. If you are hispanic... just be proud of it.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Just because she is rude to you doesn't mean she is rude to him... and some guys like the dimples. Maybe you just don't see that they are fun, faithful, witty... ect. The only dimples I thought men like were on your face.. But ok.
Star Gazer Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 The only dimples I thought men like were on your face.. But ok. Lower back dimples are sexy.
january2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Does it matter that they're Hispanic? I find that if I ever ask questions like, "Why is he with [insert random characteristic]?" It's usually a manifestation of myself and my own insecurities and prejudices. It's a learning/growth opportunity, if you will. Perhaps you're feeling a little unsatisfied with certain aspects of your life and just fancy a bit of grumble but I think that the OP could be taken as quite inflammatory - which may or may not be your intention.
january2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Perhaps you're feeling a little unsatisfied with certain aspects of your life and just fancy a bit of grumble but I think that the OP could be taken as quite inflammatory - which may or may not be your intention. Never mind, quite a few posts have since been made that seem to explain the OP.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Does it matter that they're Hispanic? I find that if I ever ask questions like, "Why is he with [insert random characteristic]?" It's usually a manifestation of myself and my own insecurities and prejudices. It's a learning/growth opportunity, if you will. Perhaps you're feeling a little unsatisfied with certain aspects of your life and just fancy a bit of grumble but I think that the OP could be taken as quite inflammatory - which may or may not be your intention. I'm not unsatisfied with anything compared to these girls. They have zero class, don't work and aren't much to look at. So no that's not it. It just boggles my mind that some men find that attractive.I was curious so I asked. But someone said maybe its because that's all these men can get. He may be onto something.
Star Gazer Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 She isn't. You are being too sensitive or too PC. If you are hispanic... just be proud of it. None of the above. I read it as "they're trashy because they're Hispanic." She clarified.
january2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 I'm not unsatisfied with anything compared to these girls. They have zero class, don't work and aren't much to look at. So no that's not it. It just boggles my mind that some men find that attractive.I was curious so I asked. But someone said maybe its because that's all these men can get. He may be onto something. Horses for courses. In most, if not all, relationships, I think that there's probably a lot more that goes on behind closed doors than is available for public viewing.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Never mind, quite a few posts have since been made that seem to explain the OP. Ok so than why are you responding?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Horses for courses. In most, if not all, relationships, I think that there's probably a lot more that goes on behind closed doors than is available for public viewing. I haven't only been a viewer. I have had encounters with these people and can hear things through my walls. Like all the screaming and swearing they do. There isn't much pleasant going on. Some people here take things a little too personally.
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 The only dimples I thought men like were on your face.. But ok. Depends on the guy... and it depends on the dimples. If you are referencing a cottage cheese type look... most men don't like that, but will overlook it for other qualities. I'm not unsatisfied with anything compared to these girls. They have zero class, don't work and aren't much to look at. So no that's not it. It just boggles my mind that some men find that attractive.I was curious so I asked. But someone said maybe its because that's all these men can get. He may be onto something. My guess is maybe the guys are just less shallow than you expect. None of the above. I read it as "they're trashy because they're Hispanic." She clarified. Got it.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 None of the above. I read it as "they're trashy because they're Hispanic." She clarified. Lol I never said that.
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 Depends on the guy... and it depends on the dimples. If you are referencing a cottage cheese type look... most men don't like that, but will overlook it for other qualities. My guess is maybe the guys are just less shallow than you expect. Got it. Its not just the look as I stated. It was just an example of the attraction of women that not only look trashy but behave that way as well. I don't act that way, so I don't understand it.
january2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Ok so than why are you responding? We can't delete posts on here. And the first part of my original post still stands. Unfortunately, it would not let me re-edit it for some reason and thus the double post. Does that satisfy your curiosity? I haven't only been a viewer. I have had encounters with these people and can hear things through my walls. Like all the screaming and swearing they do. There isn't much pleasant going on. Some people here take things a little too personally. For whatever reason, their relationships 'work' for them at the moment. They could be on the verge of a break-up, one can never tell with these things. Who are you referring to when you say that "some people here take things a little too personally?" Your neighbours?
Author SarcasticBlonde Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 We can't delete posts on here. And the first part of my original post still stands. Unfortunately, it would not let me re-edit it for some reason and thus the double post. Does that satisfy your curiosity? For whatever reason, their relationships 'work' for them at the moment. They could be on the verge of a break-up, one can never tell with these things. Who are you referring to when you say that "some people here take things a little too personally?" Your neighbours? Just wondering why you made your little passive aggressive comment about my posts. Other than to just "start stuff" on a message board.
january2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 Just wondering why you made your little passive aggressive comment about my posts. Other than to just "start stuff" on a message board. Your thread title seemed interesting. I read the OP, agreed with Star Gazer and thought it sounded a little off and thus commented on it. You explained. Unfortunately, I had some technical difficulties and couldn't edit my post in time. That's it. Your subsequent posts suggest that you're reading more into it than what's there. If you don't like my posts, think I'm being passive-aggressive and trying to "start stuff" on a message board, which I'm not, you're welcome to put me on ignore and I'll do the same. With regard to your OP, I still think that there's more going on behind closed doors. If they're having difficulties, perhaps it won't be long before they break up and thus it won't be an issue that they've chosen these "trashy women."
TaurusTerp Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 More likely they are fun and uninhibited, whereas women you "rank" higher have a stick up their butt. I'll take a woman that isn't quite as sophisticated but is entertaining to be around over some Betty Draper clone any day.
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