youaretheone Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 4 months ago, I met this most beautiful girl both inside and outside. We could never have an actual date because we always met at parties and never had a chance to show interest. I was a complete wussy in the end and she ended up wanting to be friends. After for months of NC, I sent her a cute message about photos of us taken at that time tagged on Facebook and she replies back giving me a major but yet inexplicit compliment which she used while we were flirting. Assuming that I want to give second chances to this, what would you do in my shoes? Any constructive reply is appreciated.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 Assuming that she's still interested, she should say yes if you decide to ask her out. However, don't be a doormat if she gives some lame excuse or god forbid, an ambigous date about meeting up- " How about next week or next month? I've been really busy". A specific time and date will garauntee you that she's interested. Just make sure she doesn't flake.
Author youaretheone Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 I know that I might be putting too much importance in this but she was the one who wanted to be friends. Should I be the one who asks her out again or wait for her to do it?
WTRanger Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 You are the man, YOU ALWAYS ASK FIRST. It shows YOU are interested. If you are interested, ACT LIKE IT. Then, as papercut said, based on her response you have your answer. You admitted you were a wuss the first time. Don't make the same mistake again. If she says yes, you're good. If she says no, you'll live. But above all do not, I repeat, DO NOT, ask her to "hang out." Make sure you use the word date in there somewhere so she knows your intentions.
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