loves Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I've been talking to this guy for 3 months and we met online .. He talked to my friends, i haven't talk to his but yet I know they know about me .. Our first time hanging out everything was fine in the beginning until he tried to touch me , i said no and then i teased him a little and started rubbing him over his pants and then i stopped .. then he tried to do the same and i just grabbed his hand to hold it instead .. the way home i held his hand and then started to rub again and then stopped to hold his hand again .. Now 2 days have passed & last night when i brought it up it seemed like he was upset with the fact he couldn't touch me and after i said i wanted to take it slow he was like yeah eh, kinda sarcastic (im thinking because i led him to believe i would do something with phone sex and sex conversations we had) .. i told him that i didn't know what his intentions were and i wasn't the type of girl to put out the first time! .. after that he just stopped talking to me on facebook chat .. this isn't the first time either he's just stopped talking (this was last night).. it's his bday today should i say happy birthday or just leave it and what do you think his intentions are? .. and also will he ever talk to me again and why is he being this way! .. any suggestions? ..
iJester Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 (edited) If he's smart, he won't ever talk to you again. He's pissed that you're a tease. You did lead him on, then you teased him about it...I wish he would have raped you. Edited February 1, 2011 by iJester
PeachyPink Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 What you did was not appropriate. What he did was not appropriate either, but he probably thinks you are more trouble than you are worth. Not sure why you did what you did, but it's not a good idea to do it anymore.
depplover_1980 Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 Not funny. iJester you are a pathetic little boy sat behind your keyboard spouting out complete nasty garbage saying you wish this girl had been raped. You are a bully, a coward and have no idea what you are on about. Perhaps visit the local rape centre and see some of the disastrous consequences of this vile crime if you think it's funny to wish it upon people.
heartshaped Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 If you aren't interested in sleeping with a guy don't lead him to believe you are. By the sex conversations, the phone sex, and then you rubbing on him, what did you expect him to think or what from you? You have to portray what you want. Not act one way and then expect something else.
Lucky_One Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I answered one of the other 2 threads that you started on this same topic. "Maybe, he was just embarrassed to look at you because he doesn't even really know you but has basically orgasmed with you and then you were rubbing him through his pants and he felt like it was moving awfully fast. Maybe he was repulsed by your tongue ring. Maybe he thought about what his grandmother would think of the two of you if they knew what your "friendship" consisted of. Who knows? " You changed your story a bit here, in this other thread. And I have to agree that he thinks you are a huge tease and that he only met you in order to get off in person. You didn't participate, and he doesn't care about having a real relationship with you. So, no, I wouldn't tell him Happy Birthday.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I think you are giving him mixed messages, I agree with the other posters that you are being a tease. He probably doesn't want to deal with it. I wouldn't wish him a happy birthday and just move on. Next time around don't give the guy an indication that you want a sexual relationship if you really don't. It's not fair or appropriate.
phineas Posted February 2, 2011 Posted February 2, 2011 IF I wanted a relationship with a woman & she did that to me then said she wanted to take things slow I would not talk to her again. Nobody likes a tease.
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