olii Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 So friday my girlfriend is booking a holiday to benidorm for a week with her mum, mums friend and her mums friend's older sister for may, for some reason i am really worried, about her going, we have been going out 2 years in march and the most i have been away from her is 5 days.. what do you think?
Macaw Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 Free yourself from your fears. If you're afraid she might cheat on you, you should be aware that cheaters find a way even when they're married to someone and/or living with them under the same roof. In other words, it's something that will be always out of your control. If you think she deserves your trust, then be happy for her. If you can't trust her, you might want to solve your insecurities in other ways.
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 I trust her.. its just, i would be always thinking what she is up to, guess il just have to cope with it
xpaperxcutx Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I trust her.. its just, i would be always thinking what she is up to, guess il just have to cope with it Maybe it's time to reevalute your dependency issues?
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 what is that supoise to mean? sorry im not the smartest person lol
Macaw Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I think he meant you might be acting a little bit "too clingy" and most girls don't find it sexy.
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 I agree tbh.. think im going over the top abit, shes only off on holiday for a week not 2 week..i trust her, its just i dont trust other boys on holiday..
Eeyore79 Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 What are you insecure about? She isn't exactly going to be partying like crazy and getting intimate with strange guys while she's with her mom! If she hasn't given you a reason to distrust her, then this insecurity is all on your part, and you need to figure out where it comes from and deal with it.
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 its her mums mate's siser im worried about she gets around alot if you know what i mean.. lol, im just worrying over nothing i think..
PegNosePete Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I trust her.. its just, i would be always thinking what she is up to, guess il just have to cope with it I think that word "trust" does not mean, what you think it means. If you trust her then there is no issue. If there is an issue then you do not trust her.
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 i do trust her, iv been going out with her 2 years in march and she hasnt cheated not once, and neither have i, its just the thought of her going on holiday, and been far away..maybe im been over the top, i dont know
PegNosePete Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 i do trust her, iv been going out with her 2 years in march and she hasnt cheated not once, and neither have i, its just the thought of her going on holiday, and been far away..maybe im been over the top, i dont know So you don't trust her to go on holiday? You don't trust her when she is around certain other people? Your trust is dependent on distance, or regular contact? Like I said... "trust" does not mean, what you think it means
Author olii Posted February 1, 2011 Author Posted February 1, 2011 She has been around her ex's before and never talked or done anything with them, i do trust her if she goes on holiday, its just one of the people she is going with.. and drinking alcoholic etc you never know what happens.
PegNosePete Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 i do trust her if she goes on holiday, its just one of the people she is going with.. and drinking alcoholic etc you never know what happens. Nothing just "happens". If anything happens then it is because she wants it to happen.
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