Jessicaxoxo Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 I'm a 20 year old sophomore in college and yet I've never really had a real relationship. Maybe I'm afraid of commitment or maybe I just have bad luck, who knows. But anyways, I met this guy while on vacation over the summer and he seemed perfect; tall, dark, handsome and all that good stuff. We seemed to have a lot of chemistry and got along really well. But if things weren't perfect enough at that point, I found out that he lives in the same town that I go to college in, so things obviously seemed promising. Well we continued talking everyday (via texting, of course) and once I moved back up to school we'd also hangout once or twice a week. Buuut, of course if something seems too good to be true it usually is. He stopped talking to me altogether in October and didn't talk to me again until this passed January. And of course, in those three months while not talking to me he was talking to another girl. Now things seem back to normal; he talks to me everyday and wants to come over and hangout tomorrow. But I don't know how I feel about him now. I mean I'm definitely still attracted to him but I can't get it out of my head that one second he could be telling me how much he likes me and whatnot and the next second find and move on to someone better. No one likes to be someone's second choice, so it obviously makes me insecure. So is this guy worth hanging out with and starting something with? Or is he just a superficial waste of time? Thanks for any advice!
utterer of lies Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 No one likes to be someone's second choice, so it obviously makes me insecure. So is this guy worth hanging out with and starting something with? Or is he just a superficial waste of time? Thanks for any advice! But you are his second (or third? fourth?) choice. Just accept that and move on.
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