chelle21689 Posted February 1, 2011 Posted February 1, 2011 My first love of 5 1/2 years broke up with me a week ago. I never seen him cry this hard before, it was my 2nd time seeing him cry in our 5 year relationship. He told me his feelings have changed for me and that he has no idea why. He tried to get it back, waited to be with me to see if it'd change with my company, but no...it didn't come back. He says there's no one, it's not b/c he wants to date around...we think possibly Army/distance caught up to us. He felt like he grew apart from me. We were talking after the break up like 'friends'. Conversations were easy, fun, long...until I went NC last night. He was mad...and now i feel like we're on bad terms. It's only temporary until I feel better and think I can handle knowing he's dating other people. Before I ended NC i made sure to have one more happy conversation about everything and get our feelings out there. I asked him "How are you dealing with the break up?" He told me he lost a lot of weight, couldn't eat the first couple days, that he thought of me, missed me, but he tries not to be sad cuz he brought all this upon himself. He wished that we would've worked out but stringing me along int he relationship isn't fair. I feel like he loves me but it's just so sad that he doesn't feel like he cares about our relationship anymore. It was a huge shock for me, his friends, and his family.
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