Girlfriend wants space BUT I want to see her more often

[qinboxmail]

I dated my ex 3 years and we I used to hang out with my ex often. Then right now I'm with a new girlfriend. We've been together for about half year. She says that I don't give her space. She has school and work during weekdays. She say she only wants to see me during the week. Sometimes I ask her to go with me during the week and she says she's "tired". She wants to hang out with her friends and stuff.

 

What are your suggestions? Thanks

[counterman]

Let her hang out with her friends and you can hang out with yours. If she becomes more unavailable, then drop her. She knows you want to spend more time with her, so if she doesn't suggest to spend time with you then she's not that into the relationship.

[musemaj11]

She is just not that into you.

[luvflower]

I second that suggestion. Don't get more aggressive...Spend more time doing things you enjoy within reason of course and see how things pan out.

 

How old are you two, btw?

 

I was in the same situation with my guy. The relationship eventually turned sour. He wanted to stay at my place but I needed space, uninterrupted sleep, and just ...space. I wasn't trying to be mean and wasn't seeing another guy, just needed space. Some people are different though. Try to step back and see what your gut tells you. Has she shown herself to be dishonest or just mean?

 

Discuss how you feel first, before going out doing something crazy that may sabotage the relationship. That's what little boys do. If you want mature actions, you have to set an example and see if she acts accordingly. So see how she responds to a BRIEF discussion about it. Tell her how you feel and ask if everything is cool with her in the relationship or even the rest of her life...

 

Keep us posted!

[qinboxmail]

She is just not that into you.

 

 

I'm not the only one who she treats like this. Her ex too. She's the type of girl who wants space to do her own things.