OOReeee Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hey LSers. So in the past, I had a very unhealthy habit of "marrying" the girl I'm seeing. My last gf (lasted 2.5 months), our first 5 weeks we spent every day together. That naturally ended with us getting on each other's nerves. Anyway, Had a really good date last night, going on the second one hopefully by weekend (not 2 days after like the girl before), and now I need to act and train and force myself to TAKE IT SLOW. Any tips? Thanks!
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 How old are you? The thing is, don't lose yourself in a relationship. Each person still has a life, other friends, other interests. The problems that can happen when two people spend too much time together is because each of them (or even one of them) forgets life exists outside of the relationship. It's cool to entwin your lives together, do stuff as a couple, but space is necessary too. Space in a good way, not in a negative way.
Author OOReeee Posted January 31, 2011 Author Posted January 31, 2011 27. New to the city and so is she, though I know more people than she does here. In the past I was with a girl all day (except when I was at work), we went everywhere together, cooked together, saw movies, all that. all the time. That was my idea of marriage. The problem is that it happened right after the first date.
depplover_1980 Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 I guess you just need some self discipline really! What is the longest period you've been single in your adult life?
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