etrujillo Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hey, everyone... I recently asked a girl out and she said she had a boyfriend. I wanted to ask her out for a while. So when she gave me her answer it was no biggie. At least I asked it and I stopped wondering. But recently I saw her again and her body language towards me was more comfortable and inviting. She also liked the t-shirt I was wearing. she seamed not as shy or soft spoken as before. I'm not one to break up a couple. But I'm very attracted to this girl. I wanna think her initial answer was because I put her on the spot. She works at a counter and I know it's embarrising and awkward to be asked out in public place. But it was the only way I could ask her. So anyway, I don't know if I should follow through or not. Be more agressive. Any thoughts? Thanks guys.
utterer of lies Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hey, everyone... I recently asked a girl out and she said she had a boyfriend. I wanted to ask her out for a while. So when she gave me her answer it was no biggie. At least I asked it and I stopped wondering. But recently I saw her again and her body language towards me was more comfortable and inviting. She also liked the t-shirt I was wearing. she seamed not as shy or soft spoken as before. I'm not one to break up a couple. But I'm very attracted to this girl. I wanna think her initial answer was because I put her on the spot. She works at a counter and I know it's embarrising and awkward to be asked out in public place. But it was the only way I could ask her. So anyway, I don't know if I should follow through or not. Be more agressive. Any thoughts? Thanks guys. Who cares about her boyfriend. If she likes you and it leads to something, their relationship was worthless anyway. So yes - follow through and be more aggressive.
Mad Max Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. And if she lied about her relationship status, she'll lie about other things. Is that the kind of girl you want?
GivenUp0083 Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Me personally: I'd feel like I put myself out there, next step is on her. She knows how you feel, now you just gotta play it cool. Be nice around her but don't worship her or "keep trying". If her relationship now really is worthless, give her the time to think about it and scrap it if she wants. Be careful how she acts and please AVOID doing anything for her. Some women think they can get anything from and use a man that is into them. If she knows it's obvious how much you like her then she may try to take advantage of that. Some girls also just love attention.
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Why would you ask her out again since she already said no and that she has a boyfriend? It's so pointless! What you can do is, tell her that if she becomes free and single, to give you a call. leave it at that.
Author etrujillo Posted February 2, 2011 Author Posted February 2, 2011 @ utterer: i'd like to think that it's worthless. if shes not into her BF anymore than i'd chance it. @ mad max: i've thought about that to. but the risk is worth it. at least to me. at this point it's exciting. the whole not knowing part. @ given up: exactly! i put myself out there. and i think it paid off. women like it when you have balls and are confident. @ wichwayisup: i could do that but i'm not one to wait it's now or never. i've waited before and nothing came of it. looks like advice from LS posters is just as split as my friends advice. half say go for it. half say stay away.
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