xomotoxgirlxo Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 My boyfriend went to Tahoe with some friends over the weekend. He told me he had got me a present and I was surprised because he doesn't normally buy me things out of nowhere. It ended up just being a little heart key chain that said Lake Tahoe on it. After talking about it, the idea of it being stolen RANDOMLY popped into my head. So I jokingly said: "You really bought this? You didn't steal it?" And his response was: "Did Jason say something to you?" So I immediately knew it was stolen and it caused a fight. I made it a big deal for several reasons. 1) It couldn't have been more than $10 so it made him look super cheap. 2) I was super disappointed in him. 3) He seems easily influenced by his friends because I don't think he would have done it without someone else encouraging it. Am I making this a bigger deal than it actually is? Should I keep the gift or give it back to him?
january2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 I suggest giving it back to him and saying that you appreciate that he got you a gift but stealing is wrong and you can't accept the gift.
utterer of lies Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Am I making this a bigger deal than it actually is? Should I keep the gift or give it back to him? You should give back the boyfriend and keep the gift as a symbol of having basic minimal standards when it comes to relationships.
denise_xo Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 You should give back the boyfriend and keep the gift as a symbol of having basic minimal standards when it comes to relationships. I second this.
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