wjg23g Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hey LS. I asked this girl I go to school with to have lunch (via facebook, sadly, as I don't see her too often). We're acquaintances with many mutual friends, but we always have good conversation. Anyways, she replies back, after a week, that lunch "may work" but not this week as her brother was in this past wkend and she has to make up the work this week. Says we'll touch base next week. I then look at her facebook, where some guy asked her to have sushi & she said "sure, just pick a date." I don't know guy or other. While my invite prob came across as a friendly invitation, my intuition says she has low interest. I'll prob run into her this wkend at a popular school function as well. Thoughts?
Nexus One Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 (edited) I asked this girl I go to school with to have lunch (via facebook, sadly, as I don't see her too often). Anyways, she replies back, after a week, that lunch "may work" but not this week as her brother was in this past wkend and she has to make up the work this week. Says we'll touch base next week. I then look at her facebook, where some guy asked her to have sushi & she said "sure, just pick a date." Thoughts? .....Auwch..... Edited January 31, 2011 by Nexus One
lululucy Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Don't waste your energy. She doesn't seem very keen on seeing you -- although I have to say, I have several close male friends whom I would happily see over (almost) any potential date. But if the date had a lot of potential, I wouldn't give it a second thought. You already know you shouldn't bother.
Author wjg23g Posted February 3, 2011 Author Posted February 3, 2011 LS- what are your thoughts on me just asking her out in person if i see her next week? perhaps take some initiative & do what i should have done in first place? also, if i were to do this, should i act as if my previous attempt online never happened, or play off of/make light of it?
Mad Max Posted February 3, 2011 Posted February 3, 2011 She's not interested and she's a coward for not being honest. All she had to say was "I'm not interested" or "Okay, but only as friends". if it were me, I would call her out on it just to break balls.
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