mecoolhaha Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 I'm not shy its just I dont know how to start up a conversation with a girl that I like. I'm 16 and go to a small private school, girls find me attractive, but I dont go out that much. What are some ways of meeting new girls? or starting up a conversation?
Lucky_One Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 A good way for teens to meet other kids is to join groups. Are you active in a church youth group? You are welcome there, even if you aren't particularly active in that church or even that denomination; of course, they do expect that you are there to participate with activities while obeying their rules. How about rec leagues for sports? Even if the team you play on isn't co-ed, you will increase your circle of guy friends, and girls like to hang out where they find small groups of guys hanging out. Do you play an instrument? I highly recommend taking guitar lessons! Work on meeting other people, girls and guys, who play. Our local coffee shop is open to groups sitting quietly in the corner and just practicing together or doing impromptu jam sessions. Have a community college nearby? Take a course at night that is a college-prep course, rather than a "man oriented" course like HVAC. Or take an online course. The ones I have taken have requirements about posting on a college message board pertinent to the class (we used a program called Blackboard), and we had to message each other. I noticed a lot of the younger kids would make plans on there to meet at the library to study or compare notes in person. Good luck!
Ometeotl Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 "I need ways of meeting a new girl." Wrong. Let me rephrase this question for you so that it is actually worth answering. Simple analogy, you want to want to know where fishes are, when really what you need to learn is to become a master MASTER fisherman. Girls/woman are everywhere, and time is ON YOUR SIDE, yes it is. Ok, so the fascinating question, that will instead just get you maybe a fish a once a year, but instead have the fishes jumping in to your boat. IS What is it about men/guys that drive woman wild? A few quick helpers, Confidence Great body language/posture Humor Awareness (this is a bit advanced) Socially adept (good friends, good communications skills) A mysterious side (life itself is a mystery) and simply not being a pu$$ pu$$ (meaning honing ones inner bad ass) Now, these are all great things to acquire with or without the incentive of attracting woman, but killing 2 birds with one stone seems worth your while, and YES it is ABSOLUTELY worth your while. This is own little tidbit that I would add, you know, just as an extra. Ethics. Love others as you love yourself, keep it positive, keep it fun, and keep it real. Either way you slice it, you are already do great, eventually they will come to you in groves, sooner than you think too!
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