SerenaG Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Just read the post on "stuff I miss" and believe me I totally relate but for the sake of my sanity I had to remind myself of the stuff that made me crazy. So here is what I don't miss: I don't miss waiting many hours or even days for you to respond to text/email/phone messages. I don't miss the way you talked about some of my friends. I don't miss you waiting until the last minute to see if better offers came along before you committed to making plans with me. I don't miss you going on and on about how your day went without ever asking me about mine. I don't miss that nagging feeling of insecurity I almost always had when we were together. And I don't miss your tiny ****. Sorry, too mean? It had to be said. Hmmm, why exactly am I still feeling so sad about the end of this?
lululucy Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Mmm, gooood idea. I don't miss being put down when I wore contacts or a dress or left my hair curly instead of straightening it. If I didn't ask for your opinion, I didn't want it. I don't miss getting yelled at for a little mess here and there -- I've been like this my whole life, you lived with me for three years, you should know that. I don't miss being told when you met someone attractive and fun. I don't miss being compared to other women. I don't miss wondering where you were till six in the morning. I don't miss your coke binges with your buddies, regardless of how few and far between they were. I don't miss your lack of ambition. I don't miss your lack of interest in anything below my belt. I don't miss getting you off when you did nothing for me. Ooh this is fun.
cerridwen Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Man, how I don't miss hearing about Ohio State football and the Cavaliers.
Fern Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 I don't miss paying your rent and child support. I don't miss you going drinking 3/4 nights a week with your friends. I don't miss you putting me down and taking out your bad moods on me. I don't miss the lack of sex and being rejected every time I came onto you. I don't miss feeling like I was at the complete bottom of your priority list whilst you were at the top of mine. I don't miss the constant, niggling anxiety that you were cheating on me. Again. I don't miss you taking your bad moods out on me. I don't miss your constant negativity and glass half empty attitude. I don't miss walking on eggshells in case I upset you. I don't miss you criticising me while I bit my tongue so I didn't hurt your feelings. I don't miss your stinking feet and greasy hair. I don't miss you.
dng Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 I don't miss constantly walking on egg shells around you. I don't miss your indecision about everything, including us. I don't miss you never wanting to go anywhere with me while blaming me for it. I don't miss you blaming everything on me. I don't miss never knowing if you were lying or not. I don't miss your constant gaslighting. I don't miss you rolling your eyes at everything I ever wanted.
radiodarcy Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 * i don't miss you keeping me at arm's length with the excuse that you're too busy/tired/depressed; only to go on your facebook and see that you're too busy making plans to hang out with just about everyone else on the planet but me *i don't miss your refusal to treat me as the friend you say i am by avoiding me over something i said; not telling me how much it bothered you and then throwing it in my face months later as the reason why your avoiding me in the first place. *i don't miss listening to you prattle on about how the women in your beer-drinking crew are all fighting over you and how you don't understand how you manage to get yourself entrenched in so much drama when you continue to carouse with these same women every single weekend. *i don't miss indulging you in talking about your interests (which don't interest me in the slightest) only to have you tell me that mine are boring, not your style and that i'm wasting my time and yours by discussing them *i don't have to worry about driving myself crazy paranoid - -wondering who you're hanging out with; what you're doing together; and why you prefer their company to mine *i don't miss your unsolicited advice on how you think i should be living my life when my life - - when my life is just fine the way it is - - particularly now that you're not in it
brneyedgrl Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hmm...where to start where to start... 1. I won't miss your materialistic ways. 2. I won't miss you plopping on front of the tv on date night. 3. I won't miss you constantly talking about yourself. 4. I won't miss the WIlly Wonka tattoo on your arm (really? you're 32 years old) 5. I won't miss your crazy work schedule. 6. I won't miss you saying no to taking time off. 7. I won't miss you always texting on your phone, even when we go for walks in the evening! 8. I won't miss worrying about what girl you're texting this time. 9. I won't miss you taking your two front teeth out at night :-) Get the surgery already! I doubt any woman will find that attractive! 10. I won't miss doing your laundry then watchign you throw all your clothes on the floor. 11. I won't miss your infatuation with your car and bike. It's a Chevy and a Harley, not a Ferarri and a Ducati. 12. I won't miss the lack of affection. 13. I won't miss your wandering eyes. 14. I won't miss you always having to be the center of attention. 15. I won't miss your damn movie quotes. 16. I won't miss you never knowing what you want out of life and us.
Capricciosa Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 -I don't miss your snoring that even earplugs couldn't muffle and having to get up in the middle of the night and move to the couch--even on my birthday! -I don't miss being treated like the outsider when you were with your friends, and your being hyper-sensitive to anything I said to them, as if they needed to be protected from me -I don't miss having to keep half of what I thought to myself because even one word or phrase that you took the wrong way could ruin the day, the evening, the week -I don't miss never being invited out on a pure date after we became a couple, always being expected to contribute financially to it -I don't miss your inability to be on time or call when you said you would -I don't miss your ex-girlfriends being a constant part of your life -I don't miss sex that was always about your timing and almost never about mine, no matter how many times I mentioned this -I don't miss being scrutinized, criticized, alway being made to feel like I somehow was offensive, didn't measure up, or had poor interpersonal skills -I don't miss always having to be the one who calmed you down after a fight, even if I had a right to be upset too -I don't miss your procrastination and your last minute attempts to get things done, which always managed to mess something up in a big way -I don't miss arguing at the ends of parties as to whether we should leave, or arguing right after a party because you had been offended (by me, by someone else), were holding some grudge -I don't miss being made to feel guilty about what I did or didn't do for/to you -I don't miss having to constantly thank you for every little single thing you did -I don't miss your cooking as much as you probably think I am! -I don't miss the feeling that something was not quite right, and the anxiety that accompanied it (along with the insomnia) -I don't miss your destructive little borderline friend who I did not want to be around because you regressed to some teenaged self around her and the two of you treated me like the enemy as you chain smoked and got drunk together -I don't miss feeling unloved
ccfan Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 (edited) here are mine.... I don't miss her talking about how "hot" every guy is in front of me I don't miss her insane spending habits and me always going to the rescue when her credit card was rejected I don't miss her telling me to get a "real" job even though i made and saved way more money that her I don't miss taking her to a romantic dinners only to see her texting her friends and making phone calls I don't miss her ignoring me whe she was with her best friend I don't miss me always trying to make peace after a fight even when it was her fault I don't miss texing her and not hearing from her in hours and hours bacause she "forgot to text back" I don't miss that she was so touchy and friendly with other guys, because "she´s a friendly person b.s" I don't miss her famlily and their fake "we are humble good people" when they were materialistic and very judmental... I don't miss waking on eggshells everytime, everyday I don't miss that when we went out she had to get home early becuase "it´s dangerous" but when a girlfriend of hers asked to go to a disco she stayed there as long as she wanted.. I don't miss her dressing like a semi-porn star with her boobs always showing in a vulgar way I don't miss the gut feeling that i always had that she might be flirting with other guys, exchanging numbers... I don't miss feeling like i´m worthless when i treated her like a princess I don't miss loving and not being loved back Edited January 31, 2011 by ccfan
Heartbroken_Sazzy Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 (edited) I WON'T MISS... 1 . The feeling i was never loved & only used the last year i was with him:mad: 2. You stinking of weed & Your smelly trainers u never wash:p 3. Bitting your nails to the point u have none left:laugh: 4. Relying on me to tell you its my birthday, anniversary, valentines, chrimbo in the vain hope you get me something nice & suprise me but being SEVERLEY DISSAPOINTED! 5. Being Ignored in this order His drugs His family His cats - ME 6. Spending 24/7 on his computer:confused: 7. Feeling guilty about him working late so i don't ask him to go out & he never asks me. But had time for his drugy friends:confused: 8. Making me feel like **** & clingy because i wanted him to spend time with me, away from the drugs & computer. Edited January 31, 2011 by Heartbroken_Sazzy
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