mellowtune Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 So my ex dumped me in september..right after we broke up she got with another guy and has been with him ever since. and she calls me in january saying she still loves me and she misses that we were best friends and we could tell eatchother anything and that she thinks about me a lot.My response is you have a boyfriend, you have your own pair of lips and she states that she's not really happy with him and that she got with him too quick after our break up... so we talk for a half hour or so... then the next day I text her saying we should hang out.. and she says.. "We can't do this I have a boyfriend".. so I call her and find out she has blocked me from calling her or texting... I'm thinking about changing my number... I have just deleted my facebook today.. If she really want's me back one day do you think she will show up at my house or work? this way I can forget about her completely and move on.. it's hard to move on when she calls me out of nowhere and says she misses and loves me and all this.. but doesn't do anything about it.. any thought would be great..
tfs182 Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 The only way that you will be happy, is to let go. Next time you speak to her, tell her you will no longer be contacting her anymore, and you would appreciate it if she would no longer contact you. It's hard on you, not her. She has someone right now to fall back on you, you don't. I am 99% sure that the relationship she is in right now will not work out, so don't think to hard about it. Letting go of it all is the toughest thing you can do, but once time has past, you will be glad you did it. If she comes back, and wants to talk a couple months down the road, then you have to decide if you are stronger than you were before, and that you have your emotions in check to do so. Trust me, once the appropriate amount of time goes by, you will either look back and ask yourself why you were holding on for so long, or you will realize that this person is the one. Either way...letting go is the only way of healing yourself. You will be a much stronger person because of it. Tell her to stop. And you can't contact her either. Only way it can be done. Good luck
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