Bingo999 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 second time this has happened in the last week... 1: Was talking to a guy I have been seeing for the past 3 months but things are fizzling out. He was hungover, I asked if he wanted me to bring him some food (an hour outside of my way) and he said, "I don't think I'd be great company right now." 2: Guy from overseas that I have been chatting with via text and once on Skype Friday. He had a friend in town and is hungover. I asked if he wanted to Skype today and he said "honestly, I don't think I'd be much fun" Is this a typical line to get out of things?? Just wondering if it legitimately has to do with being hungover and not wanting to make a bad impressions or if it's just them trying to shrug me off.
january2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Not a guy, but in my experience, most guys mean exactly what they say and it's best to let it go and try not to over-analyse.
Imajerk17 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 What is it with you and hung-over men? Women who pursue too much, such as offering to drive an hour our of the way to bring me food for being hung over, are annoying. I'm not trying to be mean or a jerk, just honest. Back off.
Author Bingo999 Posted January 30, 2011 Author Posted January 30, 2011 Ha! It's the weekends. Hungover. It's not driving, NYC subway -- he was coming to my place 2 - 3 times / week (he works a few blocks away) for the past 3 months and I'd only been to his place once ever. Didn't really think that was smothering -- seemed like the nice thing to do.
Nexus One Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Ha! It's the weekends. Hungover. It's not driving, NYC subway -- he was coming to my place 2 - 3 times / week (he works a few blocks away) for the past 3 months and I'd only been to his place once ever. Didn't really think that was smothering -- seemed like the nice thing to do. It is nice, don't worry about it.
Imajerk17 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 It is nice, don't worry about it. Yeah. If the rest of your relationship is good and he is doing nice things for you too, it's fine this one time. Don't make a habit of it though... I'd go out of my way for a girlfriend who is legitimately sick, not for one who drank too much. The next time you go over his place should be him inviting you, him serving you.
phineas Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 When i'm hung-over I just want to lay on the couch & feel sorry for my stupid self. I can't eat, can barely drink, feel like crap ect. I just want to be left alone really.
Recommended Posts