Xewkija Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Well my birthday is in 6 days and don't know what to expect. What should I do if she calls or text me something? Do I reply back? The thing is I want a second chance so I don't know what to do.
z00m25 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 id recommend saying just thanks and see if she strikes up conversation, make her take the lead and do most of the work and then make sure you end it first
Author Xewkija Posted January 30, 2011 Author Posted January 30, 2011 id recommend saying just thanks and see if she strikes up conversation, make her take the lead and do most of the work and then make sure you end it first Thanks, What if she asks she wants to take me out to dinner? she asked me this last week and I told her it may be a bad idea because you wont be getting the space you wanted and then went NC.
Author Xewkija Posted January 31, 2011 Author Posted January 31, 2011 Any other suggestions would be great. My therapist said if she calls that I should answer and put on a "show" pretty much and say "I'm doing fine, thanks" and not saying anything unless she brings anything up. Other advice is greatly appreciated. Thank You
TheThinker Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Hi - I would say dont get caught on the what ifs and work out in your head how you can carry on. As per the previous thread here you mentioned that you are thinking about breaking the no contact. www.loveshack.org/forums/t263082/ - All i would say is stay strong for your own good and dont let her actions rule your life. I know its hard, i really do. Sometimes you will sort of justify to yourself the fact that you can have a day off from it and maybe contact her or do the things that you automatically feel that you would like to do but ultimately thats when you have to be even stronger.
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