white_angelbreath Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 after the break-up, the "accepting, moving on" phase, what's next? how did you deal with the aftermath?
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 snog everybody drink a lot, take psychedelic mushrooms and cacti and try and care about nothing at all because the worst is over you can start to be yourself again yeehaa
hurtingandconfused Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 Yup you find yourself. Do things you use to do. Things you would not have done because you had a S/O. Things that make you happy. You basically start all over...Ya baby!
Vivid_29 Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 Look back on it all with a sense of pride, knowing that you've survived and start chasing around all the sexy wahines out there! ~V
Author white_angelbreath Posted March 23, 2004 Author Posted March 23, 2004 okey, love so complicated. why do we have to be reborn all the time after dying?...
Vivid_29 Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 Originally posted by white_angelbreath why do we have to be reborn all the time after dying?... Rebirths are always good! I wouldn't want to be dead forever -- ~V
Author white_angelbreath Posted March 23, 2004 Author Posted March 23, 2004 how do you handle each morning two weeks after the "i-realize-i-will-become-a-new-person-today-stop-hurting-myself-anymore-and-move-on" phase?
hurtingandconfused Posted March 23, 2004 Posted March 23, 2004 It just happens like everything else in life. Each day is a small step to the long journey of what we call LIFE. You do not overcome this "phase" within 1-2 weeks nor can you be a new person within that time. Sometimes life gets hard, but no one said that it was easy. As everyone says it will get better.
Author white_angelbreath Posted April 14, 2004 Author Posted April 14, 2004 I would definitely say NOW that my life is getting better. I'm happier now than I was during the break-up period. I have the support of my family and friends and that it's making me feel valued, special and loved. I know that there are still other people who loves me and they are the ones who are worth putting my attention to. I know I am making something better for myself now. Before everythings seems to be difficult and I seem to fail everytime. But I am following my intuition now "collecting my bones" as what Dr. Estes advises for those women who wants to develop their intuition. I'm rebuilding my life the way I want it to be. It takes one day at a time for sure. I know there are still obstacles that will come along my way but I am putting all my trust in God or in my intuition or animus to help me survive all these... It's get better and better everyday as I take one day at a time and I am liking it!!
emeraldxx05 Posted December 9, 2005 Posted December 9, 2005 snog everybody drink a lot, take psychedelic mushrooms and cacti and try and care about nothing at all because the worst is over you can start to be yourself again yeehaa Who were you pretending to be?
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