heartbeats4u Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 in a LDR when you feel so lost without your other half? We will be reunited for good on May 7th, and we will see each other maybe 3? times before then. We're currently 2,000 miles apart. I don't know. You know those days when you wake up and can't stop thinking about how much you miss your significant other? How do I survive this time apart? It's almost painful, but it is worth it because she is the only one I would want to be with.
folieadeux Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 You're extremely lucky in that you have a concrete end date in sight; many of us on here don't. I'd use this time to plan your upcoming visits...that's always been the one thing that's gotten me through.
Author heartbeats4u Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 Thanks, I'll definitely try that. I do that sometimes, but only occasionally. Yes, I am lucky to have a date in sight, and I am incredibly happy about that. 3 hour time differences aren't fun either though :\
Foreveryours10 Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Honestly...keep yourself busy thats the only way to survive without being an emotional wreck all the time. i do that to where i have my calender and i have marked how many days left till i see him but what really worked for me was to keep myself busy throughout the day and we always have a set time to talk at night. and i feel like its good to keep yourself busy for many reasons, your so wrapped up in doing things that you start to feel great again without them and also when you do talk you get to tell them everything that has happened so when you do talk your not just sitting there with nothing to talk about.
MissKnowitall Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Writing helps me. Either a letter to him or in a journal. I also keep an online journal so I can write at my computer when I am thinking about him. I miss him all the time. I stay busy, and write
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