Xewkija Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 When my ex and I were together back in high school their was this other girl who I were friends with before I even knew my ex. This girl was JUST a friend but my g.f always thought she had something for me because if the way she looked at me, she was a really cool person to talk too and be with. HOWEVER, 3 years ago my ex saw a text message on my phone "I passed by your car but I did not see you" and boy did she bug. I don't know why but she did we were just friends we hugged that was it. So after she saw the text message she called her up and started yelling and screaming at her saying never to speak to my boyfriend ever again or I'll kill you. Well ever since then and 3 years later, she has never talked to me ever again. Last time I saw her I apologized to her about what my g.f has done and she said it was okay and said I'll text you later. Never happened. I have tried adding her on facebook and she blocked me. I know where she works but I don't want to seen like a stalker or something but I haven't seen her in 3 years so I shouldn't feel like that and i have every right to go in where she works because they make excellent vanilla beans anyways, how can I get her to become my friend again? Other then my ex gf she was the only other girl that I could talk to about anythiqng. Thank you
Mavisse Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 If she declined your friends request, I think you need to leave it at that. It's sad, because you both sound like nice people, but she might be afraid that you bring drama and she has the right to say no.
Author Xewkija Posted January 30, 2011 Author Posted January 30, 2011 If she declined your friends request, I think you need to leave it at that. It's sad, because you both sound like nice people, but she might be afraid that you bring drama and she has the right to say no. Your right I'm sure she thinks that but I would never bring any drama to her, she was such a great person to be around with and always had a positive attitude.. just sucks. maybe I'll go in when shes working and see if she says anything. If not then I'll leave it at that. Thanks
Mavisse Posted January 30, 2011 Posted January 30, 2011 Well, maybe you could try one last friends request on FB and send a message along telling her how you feel...it might be less stress for both of you than showing up at her work?
Author Xewkija Posted January 30, 2011 Author Posted January 30, 2011 Well, maybe you could try one last friends request on FB and send a message along telling her how you feel...it might be less stress for both of you than showing up at her work? I would but she blocked me so I can't message her either. So work is the next best thing =]
Macaw Posted January 31, 2011 Posted January 31, 2011 Got any mutual friends that are willing to ask her for a friend's night out at the bar and "forget" to mention you'd be coming too? That would be somewhat dishonest, but it would still be a lot less intrusive than showing up where she lives or works. Plus I know how you feel. I've had a couple friends whom I've had pretty strong ties with simply disappear from my life overnight. In my book, that kind of behavior deserves at least an explanation straight to your face. Do keep in mind that 3 years is a lot of time. Her current personality might not even resemble the friend you once had.
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