Xewkija Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 I'm so anxious to hear from her but I'm trying my best not to give in to say or text her anything until she does. I just wanted to know how long would it take if she really loves you to come call you or text you back and possibly try to straighten things out?
Hhhh Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 your in panic mode, just don't contact her at all.
Author Xewkija Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 your in panic mode, just don't contact her at all. What do you mean by panic mode? I don't know what do do with myself it's 4pm and I'm in bed. Never does this happen
Aisha4457 Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 You have to get into your head she may never contact you. She may realise she actually doesn't love you. Best thing to do is start moving on. If she comes back. Bonus.
Author Xewkija Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 You have to get into your head she may never contact you. She may realise she actually doesn't love you. Best thing to do is start moving on. If she comes back. Bonus. I try so hard to do this. I just can't. I feel like my life is just useless.
bluebirdsfly Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 I don't know what do do with myself This is panic mode. And don't do anything in this mode, or you will destroy the only chance, if there is any at all, you have in the future. I know it's very hard. Been there, done that. But try to focus on something, anything. Maybe go to CBS website and watch some sitcoms, but do not contact her in any way, no texts, no calls, no emails, no paper mails, no Morse code. And be prepared to move on.
Author Xewkija Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 I'm gonna try my best to not talk to her. And I'm trying hard to move on but I'm also afraid too. I'm trying to find a new job as well, i know it will help me but I'll be afraid to start a new job. I wanted to ask this question but I forgot too, how come when I asked for my things back for all my clothes and anything else I ever gave her she didn't? She stillnhas some clothes of mine, she has the book that I made for her and the one she made for me ( these are Books of when we first talked on AIM the convos, pictures of us, stories, ect.. Days have been put into these books.) and she said she didn't want to give them to me. I didn't mind this because I figured it would help her bring me back which I dont know yet. She also has this HUGE bear I gave her still in her room and the only way to hide it is by throwing it away.
Thatguyintx Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 Xewkija, You may not be ready to understand, and that is okay. Whatever you do, don't contact her. Don't analyze why she does certain things now. What she does may not make any sense to her, how could it possibly make sense to you? Work on you. Focus on you. What can you do to make you a better and more complete person?
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