justletgox51 Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 So, my ex and I have been in no contact mode for a month and 4 days (yeah still counting it... but no longer hoping.) Anyway, our mutual friend (who goes to different high school but attended the same elementary as my ex and I) hasn't talked to my ex (of 11 months) in a long time, but she has talked to me about our break up and stuff. Anyway, today she im-ed my ex with a message, "Hi kuya (Filipino word for old brother)" They're not brothers but my ex is older than my friend (we're both the same age). And so, my ex replied with, "hey ;)" And my friend messaged me telling me that I'm right that my ex is a creep because he's now thinking that my friend's chopping him. But she's not, she even politely said "kuya". In addition to that, my ex asked for her number and texted her with, "[insert his name here] Chop Chop ;)" My friend (who goes to another high school) then told me that he thinks every girl that he talks to him likes him, thinks he's hot (he's chubby, big and fat, and cocky since he is popular in our high school since he's a basketball player -- but hey I thought he was handsome and I loved him). My other friend has also told me that he likes another girl, and I think it's my karma for moving on too fast from him. I moved on "too fast" after 2 weeks when he broke up with me because for a week he played with my emotions and took advantage of my emotion (you know the kissing me, thinking he still loves, no sex). I'm still in grade 10 and my ex is in grade 11 and I just don't understand what he's doing. Our school is a non-semester school, so all grades are mixed in one subject department. And everyday, there's at least a period where I see him, and he'd be talking to these girls, and I get jealous but I don't show it. I mean he changed towards me 'cause he treats me as if I don't exist, already blocked/deleted me on Facebook but still is online on MSN. I act like I'm happy and talk to guys too, because what can I do? But it hurts.... Any advice? HELP!
Author justletgox51 Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 Also, his birthday is coming up and if you read my other threads about my breakup--- Should I greet him a "happy birthday" or just still continue NC?
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