Update

[issohard]

Just a quick update; obviously I did went out to the pub where my xMM was also invited but I have secured myself and brought a friend of mine with me so I could prevent any types of conversation or attempts of contacting me. My friend is aware what is going on and they have met before. It went well but the moment he left it made me feel sad. Today I feel a little bit down, I think this is probably normal feeling at this stage. I have accepted the fact that we have a very small chance of ever being together and this is a very positive in a process of moving my life forward. He is still crossing my mind almost every day but I can finally eat, sleep and laugh. I think the old me have came back finally

[tinktronik]

Just a quick update; obviously I did went out to the pub where my xMM was also invited but I have secured myself and brought a friend of mine with me so I could prevent any types of conversation or attempts of contacting me. My friend is aware what is going on and they have met before. It went well but the moment he left it made me feel sad. Today I feel a little bit down, I think this is probably normal feeling at this stage. I have accepted the fact that we have a very small chance of ever being together and this is a very positive in a process of moving my life forward. He is still crossing my mind almost every day but I can finally eat, sleep and laugh. I think the old me have came back finally

 

OP why are you going to places you know you will run into him?

[whichwayisup]

You say it went well, what does that mean? You ignored him and he ignored you? Or you two did have a conversation and it was okay?

 

Focus on the positive -- You are sleeping better, eating well and not as down. Work with that! It's okay to be sad and miss him, but don't let those thoughts take over! Keep busy and continue going out with your friends, though I suggest you avoid places for a while where exMM hangs out, why put yourself in a situation that has alot of potiental to hurt you.