Lovelybird Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 (edited) After reading some threads, I found a trend that women lie to themselves so much!!! When they want intimate relationship with a decent man, they say I am ok with casual sex, in fact, I am a free and liberated woman, so I want sex only!! But in the end, they still got hurt. I want to ask this question: why do you want to lie to yourself so much???!! Are you trying to numb youself so you won't feel anything when you have sex, so you can freely have sex with men? Are you hoping through sex men can grow affection like women do? Edited January 29, 2011 by Lovelybird
Jannah Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 A woman is only "okay" with casual sex, if **sex** is truly the ONLY thing she wants and she cannot be engaged emotionally. But most women associate sex with love. Casual sex means no talking on the phone, no daily correspondence, no going out on dates, no sleeping over, no cuddling, no talking about feelings or personal items. Have sex and go home.
SmileFace Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 A woman is only "okay" with casual sex, if **sex** is truly the ONLY thing she wants and she cannot be engaged emotionally. But most women associate sex with love. Casual sex means no talking on the phone, no daily correspondence, no going out on dates, no sleeping over, no cuddling, no talking about feelings or personal items. Have sex and go home. Not sure about the cuddling and sleeping over may happen every once in a while . But this is absolutely correct.
Knittress Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 Because everyone lies to themselves. But for this topic specifically - sometimes folks are just in a situation where they can't have the type of relationship they want (maybe they're moving to another country or something), and maybe they WANT to be able to have casual sex because even emotional-types have needs. Extended periods of celibacy can be just as painful as a little educational heartbreak.
bac Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 After reading some threads, I found a trend that women lie to themselves so much!!! When they want intimate relationship with a decent man, they say I am ok with casual sex, in fact, I am a free and liberated woman, so I want sex only!! But in the end, they still got hurt. I want to ask this question: why do you want to lie to yourself so much???!! Are you trying to numb youself so you won't feel anything when you have sex, so you can freely have sex with men? Are you hoping through sex men can grow affection like women do? Because they say men what they think the men want to hear. If they do not do that, they might lose the men. In some situations it is true that women do not want a serious relationship with a certain man. People often do not know what they want especially women. Also, the things that women want might change during a certain period of time because of many reasons.
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