silver68 Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 So its been over a month since the breakup, but I haven't been completely NC until a few days ago. I broke it a few times when I found out various truths about the breakup, another guy and other things. A few days ago, we had texted and I thought it would be a good idea to meet up this weekend to talk over things after not seeing or talking in over a month. She thought it was a good idea too. I was just feeling desperate and thought there was still a chance, even though....I don't really want her back!!!! Well, after reading a lot on LS, I decided that this would not be a good idea. The thing is, I didn't tell her this. So what do I do when she asks when and where we are going to meet? Or if she keeps asking? I don't want to break NC....what do I do? Also, what do I do about wishing her a happy birthday, which is coming up in a month? I don't want to be the "bad guy," but I don't want to break NC.
edgeofdarkness Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 .../.// So what do I do when she asks when and where we are going to meet? Or if she keeps asking? I don't want to break NC....what do I do? Also, what do I do about wishing her a happy birthday, which is coming up in a month? I don't want to be the "bad guy," but I don't want to break NC. send txt, ';dont think it woud b good idea to meet, im going NC to help me heal and get over u, nothing aginst u, just need to do this for my owen good, sorry, pls dont contactt me. thnkx"" no happu birthdya leave it yr not a bad guy you jus need to mov on. its for u to heal not 2 mk her feel good
Author silver68 Posted January 29, 2011 Author Posted January 29, 2011 What if I just ignore her questions......that might make me feel better. Why does she deserve anything from me now? After everything that went down?
edgeofdarkness Posted January 29, 2011 Posted January 29, 2011 What if I just ignore her questions......that might make me feel better. Why does she deserve anything from me now? After everything that went down? look handel it n e way u want, but stay NC.
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