ayjt80 Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Hi im new to these boards. out of the blue my girlfriend said to me that she needs time for herself and dont take it personal. Now im 30 and she is 33 and this came out of the blue. i do admit though she has been having problems with her sister and son, alot of family turmoil. And she has been depressed as of late. We've been dating for about 3 and half months. Now is this a breakup??? or does she need "time". I love her to death and want the best for her so ive respected her request and havnt tried to contact her. how long should i wait for this "time" to pass. like i said I love her but if this is meant to be a breakup i wish she would just say that. Also she has become more distant in the days leading up to her saying this.
SDA Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Give her the space. Let her come to you. It'll be hard but just chill for a while.
anthony jensen Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 I think she must also respect you too, Ask her to just be open with you.
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