Sevenscars Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 In a surprising twist of events, my dreams have been coming true. Let me explain. I'm not one to believe in premonition, especially coming from me, but recently when I have a dream I find some aspect of it happenin in my daily life. Long ago (I've been over 50 days NC now, I never really counted) I dreamt that she lost her virginity. It happened the very next day. Before that, I dreamt she was with someone else. Recently, I've had 2 dreams about her: one where I checked her facebook (I've been wanting to but was convinced otherwise by LSers) and her status said something about missing me. Last night I dreamt she sent me an email, and I typed back an angry response only to have enough sense to delete it and not respond. Maybe its because that's what I want to happen but she hasn't had the guts to contact me at all so I'm slowly starting to accept that it won't happen. These dreams are almost haunting. Has anyone had any similar experiences? And had their dreams come true, in a sense? What have you done to overcome this?
Leandro Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Well about a year ago, i had a dream that my ex was with the other guy all happy. I didn't think much about it. In August, she left me for him. That was the only dream that I know has become true. The rest of my dreams about her and him, I just believe that they have become true, even if they haven't yet. Just have to ignore them. Some of them might be what you want or fear.
0hpenelope Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 I don't really put stock in my dreams because I've figured out how I dream, meaning I know what I usually dream of and all that. A while ago, I made the conscious effort to learn how I remember dreams and how to not remember dreams. I learned that when I take the time to remember my dream right after I wake up, then I will remember what I dreamed about. All of the dreams I had about my recent ex, I knew I had them while waking up, but I didn't think of the dream and got out of bed and went about my day. I can tell you that I've dreamt about him, but I cannot tell you what happened in my dreams. As for prophetic dreams, I'm not the one to judge those who believe in them. I personally don't believe them, because whatever happens with our exes, they have set the factors to make it happen in place. I do believe in the idea of "self-fulfilling prophecies," but it doesn't mean that those who want their exes back should dwell on the possibility that the ex will come back and it will happen because they feed that belief. We see more examples of exes coming back when dumpees have 100% moved on and absolutely lost all hope of getting back together, yet still a lot of dumpees want to manipulate the NC/healing process w/ the intent to get their exes back. Best thing to do in those "I had a dream about my ex" situations is to just say "It's just a dream," and move on from there. Don't look for anything more meaningful with that because it will only delay progress in moving on.
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